Why My Girl Friend Meets With Other Boys?

dear sir

ASalam-o-alaikum

sir mera problem yeh hai k mere Grirl friend ko mainay kafi baar dusray boys se baat kartay hue pakra hai....infect milti bhee hai.....jab pucho to jhooth jhoot stories bana deti hai,,,,,or ek baat or woh yeh k jitnay bhee larkay hain woh sub us se age mein chotay he hotay hain....she is just 20 yrs old.....kiya aap mere kuch madad karein gai k aakhir yeh kyoun esa karti hai......wht are the reasons behind this....thanks alot

regards

Dear Sir, My problem is that my girl friend use to meet with other boys.  On enquiring she tells lie. The boys to whom she meets are all younger than her and her age is just 20.  Would you please tell me what is going on?

salman

kiya yeh koi psychology problem hai

psychology

mujhay yeh psychology  problem es liye bhee lagta hai bcoz us ko us k gher se woh value nahi milti hai......shayad yeh ek wajha ho sakti hai us ka ese harkatein karnay ki.........kindly mujhay reply karein

or ager aap mei se koi psychology doctor hai to mujhay plz es number pe ph karlein ....edit...ta k mein us larki ko lay k ap k clinic pe visit kar sakoon......ager aap ko esa lagay k yeh psychology  probelm hai to.....

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bhai meray jab woh aap ki gf ban sakti hai to kissi aur ki youN naheeN. iss main psyco prob ki kia baat hai?

agar oss laRki maiN koi prob hai to woh psyco nahi balkay character prob hai k woh aap jaisay naa.mahram larkay ki girl frnd bani jo ghair ikhlaaqi, ghar-shara.ee aur beghairti ki baat hai.... but yeh bataiN shareef larkiyouN k nazdeeq ahmiat rakhti hain.... jo aik ki GF ban sakti hai woh sau ki bhi aur aisee larkiyoun k liyeh yeh sab bataiN bay maani hoti haiN.

wazah rahay k naa.mahram larkiyouN ko GF bananay walay bhi onhi ki tarah hotay hain... woh koi farishtay nahi hotay. aaj aik ko GF banaya dil bhar gayaa / kaam poora hoagayaa to oss par "ilzaam" lagaa kar doosri GF ki talaash start kardi......... aur "justify" karnay k liyeh yeh post kardi lol

agar aap meri reply say hurt howay haiN to mujhay khushi hogi k abhi aap k pass imaan o zameer ka kuch hissah maujood hai. lehaza aap GFship say taubah karkay sodhar jayaiN. agar aap still hurt nahi howay to mujhay afsos hoga aur maiN aap k haq maiN dua karta houN k Allah aap ko hedayat day. aameen

rE: Broke bond supreme

hitman and rizvi

hitman bhai woh mere dost hai but i like her.......mainay propose bhee kara hai or woh maan bhee gae hai mager problem yahan aata hai k kai baar mujhay maloom hua hai k woh dusray boys se milti hai...........i think rizvi bro thek keh rahay hain k yeh psycho problem nahi character problem hai jis ko thek nahi kiya ja sakta.....yeh baat mein es liye keh raha hoon k mainay usko bahoot bar samjha k dekh liya hai....lakin woh apni ghalti manay tab koi baat ho na....ab aap log mujhay batain k mujhay kiya karna chahye.....mai us se waqai bahoot pyar karta hoon...or aap logoun k saath es liye yeh baatein share kar raha hoon bcoz i think aap log mashallah se bahoot samajhdar hoo...mujhay jo bhee mashwara(solution) do gai woh bilkul thek he hoga

thanks k aap logoun ne reply kara

dear rizvi bro

rizvi bhai mein khud ko justify nahi kar raha hoon or na he us per koi ilzam laga raha hoon...meinay yeh post sirf es liye kare hai k aap logoun se koi solution lay sakoon........ager usko chorna he hota to yahan yeh post kyoun karta  ....mujhay kiya pare hai khud ko justify karnay ki.....

aagay ap jo samajho gai woh thek he hoga...ap khud samajhdar hain

rE: Supreme

hull

har maslay ka hull hota hai bhai... jab woh aap k propose karnay k baad bhi doosri taraf dekhti hai to iss baat ki kia zamanat hai k shadi k baad bhi woh idhar odhar nah dekhay...

yaa to aap ossay issi tarah (iss khami k hotay howay) qabool karlo aur shadi bhi karlo... magar yeh tawaqqah kabhi nah rakhna k woh apni iss by default khami ko choR degi... haaN aap say chopaa zaroor sakti hai

yaa phir aap oss say qatah talluq karlo... piyaar wiyaar shadi k baad apni biwi say karnaa... qabl az shadi piyaar karna aur woh bhi iss qism ki laRki say... khud aap ki shakhsiyat ko mashkook banaa degaa

maano nah maano, jaanay jahaaN ikhtiyaar hai + hum naik o bad hazoor ko samjhaaye jatay haiN ):

bilkul

girl friends to aisi hi hoti hain yar

zahir hai jo ek banday ko boy friend bana skti hai

to wo baki larkon ko bi bana skti hai

behter hai k ek achi larki chuno

ghar walon ki marzi se

us k bad us se shadi ker lo

biwi jo hoti hai na wo kabhi bhi kisi ghair mard se bateyn kerna pasand nahi kerti

lekin girl friends aisa kerti hain

supreme

well aap log thek keh rahy hoo k...es baat ki to waqai koi guarantee nahi k woh esa karna chorday ge...behtar yeh he hoga k mein pechay hut joun.....warna badnami to mere he hoge...........

well thanks dear brothers.......

re:

pelhay tu aap es baat ka jawaab dain ke ye girlfriend hoti kya hai?aap ne aaj tak ussay bola ke main tumhain like kerta hon aur tum se hi shadi kerna chahta hon.....laikin aap tu ussay girlfriiend sumajhtay han aur wo aap ko boyfriend tu es relation ka result tu yehi hona hai na.

sahi bat hai mujhe tu es girlfriend-boyfriensd relation ki logic hi aaj tak sumajhe nahi ayi..

aap uss ki baat bahd ma kerain pelhay zara ye batayain aap ko ager wo pasand hai tu aap uss se shaadi kuin nahi kertay as a girlfriend kuin treat kertay han.uss ko apni izat kuin nahi buna laitay takay wo sirf aap ki hi ho ker rahay?

ager aap ussay like nahi kertay aur uss ke saath sincere nahi tu ussay chor kuin nahi daitay.

remember supreme ye girlfriend aur boyfriend etc kuch nahi hota balkay sub kuch wohi hota hai jis se humari shaadi ho.

shaadi se pelhay na kisi aur se pyar kerain aur bharoosa tu bilkul bhi kisi per na kerain kuin ke aaj kal her kisi se kuch bhi expect kiya ja sakta hai....KHUDA se dua kerain ke aap ko naik aur achi bivi day aur aap ki zindagi izat aur ikhlaq se guzer jaye....baki chakaroon ma na perhain....

dekhain supreme bhaiya dunia aisay logon se bhari pari hai jo girlfriends bunatay han aur ladkiyon se flirt waghaira keratay aur timepass ke liay un se dosti kertay aur apni desires pori kertay han...aik shareef,khandani,sumajhedar aur mature insaan aisay qaam nahi kerta wo bus aik ladki ka ho ker rahta hai aur ussi ke saath sincere hota hai aur uss ko apni izat sumajhta hai.

ager wo ladki aisay kerti hai tu aap aik qaam kerain ussay chor dain.kya pata ALLAH pak ne aap ke liay koi es se bahter ladki naseeb ma rakhi ho..aur plz further koi aur girlfriend na bunayain...dekhain aap per sirf aap ki bivi ka khaas haq hai tu wo aap kisi aur ko na dain...insaan aur janwer ma yehi shahoor ka farq hai jis ki wajha se ALLAH ne insaabn ko priority di.

ye premarital relations humari marital life ko bhi upset kertay han so shaadi se pelhay kisi qisum ka taluq na rakhain werna maslay aur ladayiyan hi hon gi. 

humain bara charming lagta hai ke humari marzi ka koi insaan milay,ye pyar wayar aur shaadi se pelhay ke relations laikin ye tabahi hai sirf aur es sub ki koi haqiqat nahi.

abhi tu aap ki age sirf 22 years hai aap abhi sirf apni studies per concentrate kerain,apna career bunayain aur apni zindagi ko sanwarain aur apnay pain oer kharay hon baki her tara ka khayal dil se nikal dain.

apnay walidain ki khidmat kerain,un se duayain lain aur khud paanch waqt namaz parh ker Khuda se apnay liay aur apnay ghar walon ke liay dua kiya kerain.plz apni zindagi in bekaar ki baaton ma kherab mat kerain.

aap ke naseeb ma jo ladki ho gi wo aap ko khud hi sahi time per ALLAH ata ker day ga...sirf ALLAH se apnay achay moqader ki dua kiya kerain.OK

ALLAH uss ladki ko ,aap ko aur hum sub ko hidayat day Aamin :-(

sooth

sooth bhiaya mein pehaly bhee bata chuka hoon k mainay us larki ko propose kara tha.......well ager mujhay apni desire he puri karni hoti to na to mein us larki ko kabhee propose karta or na he yeh problem aap logoun mein share karta...just bcoz mujhay us ki fikar hai jab he aap logoun se yeh baat kare.....baqi rahi shadi ki baat to sir jaisay k  aap ne khud kaha k pehlay apnay paon per kharay ho jao then ,,,,,to dear sooth bhaiya mein yeh he koshish kar raha hoon es liye mein filhal shadi ka to soch bhee nahi sakta.....lakin aap ki baat bhee thek hai k jo larki Allah pak ne mere liye muntakhib kare hoge woh to milne he hai....to en sub chakaroon mein par k kyoun apna time waste kara jaye.....or mein yeh sub baatein samajhta hoon....or yeh bhee manta hoon k yeh sub pyar nahi hota..pyar to shadi k baad he shoro hota hai....mager insan ki apni bhee ek pasand hoti hai....ab mere pasand thek nahi nikli woh or baat hai...lakin es ka yeh matlab to nahi k hum kise ko pasand he na karein

lakin itna zaroor samajh gaya hoon k har kaam age k saath he acha lagta hai.....aap beleive nahi karoo gai lakin us larki ko apni life se nikalnay k baad mein kitna upset tha....ab Allah ka shukar hai thek hoo gaya hoon or wapis apni life ko enjoy karna shoro kar diya hai.....thanks k aap sub nay mujhay ek baray bhai ki tarah samjhaya.......well mere future k liye dua kijye ga....

Allah aap sub ko khush rakhay