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Group: Members Joined: 25th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 6:29am |
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 Foreplay With Wife Before Rukhsati: Is It Allowed In Islam?
i just got married two months ago and i asked a question.....my nikkah was two months ago in india and now i am in pakistan but i have one year left for my ruksati....i have been reading lot from this site..its a very good site i have learned a lot....my question #1 is this...me and my wife after nikkah done foreplay few time(WE DID NOT DO SEX INTERCORCES YET ) does that break my nikkah with her before ruksati in islimic point of view..#2 is what if something happens to mei mean if god forbid i die what should she do i mean what steps she has to follow..PLZ REPLY ALL
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khoobsurat |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 32 Post: 326 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 1:09pm |
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re: known
- aap ne rukhsati se pehle jo kuch bhi kiya woh Islamic point of view se to sahi hai but social point of view se wrong hai
- khuda-naa-khuasta agar aap ko kuch ho gaya to aap ki wife par iddat farz nahi hogi aur woh kisi aur se shadi kar sakti hai.
- but aap positive sochen, b/c life mai khubsoorti aur mohabbat sirf positive thinking se hi aa sakti hai.
- allah se dua karen ke woh aap ko aur aap ki wife ko bohot lambi aur khoobsurat zindagi ata farmaye aur ham sab ke liye bhi dua karen.
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Mrs Ahmed |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 4:19pm |
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Allah ka shukar adda karain Allah ka shukar ada karain k baat sirf foreplay tak he rahi is say agay nahi gaai
agar is say zada kuch ho jata to yeh islamic point of view say hilal tha lakin jis society main hum reh rahay hain us main yeh larki k liye promlm bana sakta hay
baat wohi hay jo khoubsurat ny ki hay k agar khuda na kwasta apko ko kuch ho jata hay to poepl will consider ur wife as virgin gal bcz apki ruksati nahi hui
newayz jitna mujay pata tha i postd i hpe apko mairi baat buri nahi lagi ho ge agar lagi ho to i m sorrie 4 dat
God bless u all
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Prozak |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 82 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 4:32pm |
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Mrs Ahmed And Khobsoorat AoA
you both guys posted about cultur and society that Gentleman clearly told you his nikkah happen in India and what do you know about Indian culture. what culture you live in Pakistan. What a wonderful culture where ever day Rape is going on where Millitants are killing own brothers and sisters where on the name of Jehaad sui side Bombing going on.
so Please dont talk about that shitty culture what was adopted by Hindu ism where thousands families cannot get married their doughters because of Jehaiz ?? that is culture too. Where having boy friendz and having girl friendz become a symbol of Pride. where doing violation became sign of Pride.
So what ever he did he did with his wife and it is stupid to discuss that tiny issues at this forum . God know us koom ko Akal kab aai gee. Afsoos hota hai . |
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 5:26pm |
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re: known 1. aisi larki jiska nikah hua lekin rukhsati nahi hui, virgin tasawar ki jati hai. yahi wajah hai keh aisi larki ka shohar agar talaq dede ya inteqal karjai tu os par iddat lazim nahi hoti.
2. jab keh rukhsati ke bad larki virgin tasawar nahi kijati isi lia agar rukhsati ke bad shohar talaq de ya inteqal kar jai tu iddat lazim hoti hai.
3. iddat ka sab se aham maqsad yeh hota hai keh agar pahle shohar se koi pregnancy ho tu wo zahir ho jai.
4. nikah ke bad agar ap ne apni bivi se foreplay kia hai tu ap ki bivi par bhi iddat ke wahi qawaneen lagoo ho ge jo keh rukhsati ke bad wali dulhan par hoti hai. yani khuda na khasta agar ap ose talaq dede ya aap ka inteqal ho jai tu ose bhi iddat peh baithna hoga.
5. agar aisi bivi iddat par nahi baithe gi tu allah ki nafarmani kare ge aur os ka gunah hoga. jabke iddat par baithne ki soorat mai sharmindagi uthani pare gi kio keh is tarah sab ko pata chal jai ga keh is larki ka rukhsati se qabal apne shohar se jismani taluqat tha.
6. nikah ke bad rukhsati se qabal bivi se taluq rakhne se na tu nikah toota hai aur na hi koi gunah hai. lekin aisi bivi ki haisiat rukhsati ke bad wali dulhan jaisi tasawar ki jati hai. yeni yeh virgin nahi hoti aur is par iddat lizim hojati hai.
7. bivi se ap mubasrat kare ya na kare. sirf foreplay karne par bhi jismani taluq kahlai ga aur iddat lazim hoga. lekin na nikah toote ga aur na hi gunah hoga.
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 6:10pm |
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Prozak tum ko sharm ani chahia tum ne Atlanta USA mai baith kar Pakistani aur Indian culture ke lia jo ghatia alfaz istemal kia hai os par tumhai sharm ani chahia. agar tum mai zara bhi sharm aur ghairat hai tu apne alfaz wapas lo aur is forum ke tamam members se maafi mango. kio keh is forum par Pakistani aur Indian Muslim members discuss karte hai jis ki tum ne toheen ki hai.
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khoobsurat |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 32 Post: 326 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 4:45am |
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re: prozak aap ne jo kuch bhi kaha woh aap ki apni soch hai, jis ko mai discuss nahi karna chahti warna ek jang start ho jayegi b/w members. aap yeh baat to maante hain naa ke Musalmaan chahe pakistan mai rehta ho, india mai ya america mai, us ke liye Islam ki teachings same hoti hain aur us ke value jo Islam based hote hain woh bhi same hote hain, to kiya fark parta hai ke sender of this post india se belong karta hai, my answer remains the same for him. |
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2048 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 6:13am |
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re: khoobsoorat & Mrs. Ahmad 1. Noorclinic.com ki apni aik policy hai jis ke tehat yaha kuch cheezo ko ghalat aur kuch cheezo ko drust samjha jata hai. mai aur mujh jaise kuch members noorclinic ki policy par 100% poora utarte hai.
2. ap dono ke previous post se andaza hota hai keh ap dono bhi Noorclinic.com ki policy par 100% poora utar rahi hai.
3. Noorclinic.com ki policy hai keh
- tamam logo ko sex education di jai.
- tamam logo ke health & sex problem solve kia jai.
- logo ko be-hayayi aur fahashi ke nuqsanat batai jai
- sex movie aur sex chating ki mukhalfat ki jai
- koi bhi bat pakistan ke khilaf na ki jai.
- koi bhi jawab ghair-islami na ho.
- jawab pakistani culture ke mutabiq dia jai.
- harbal homoeo aur hakeem theory se hat kar jawab di jai.
- logo ka sex aur islam ke mutaliq concept clear kia jai.
- girl-friend aur boy-friend culture ki mukhalfat ki jai.
- shadi se qabal foreplay aur mubasrat ki sakht mukhalfat ki jai.
- sex ke mutaliq logo ka concept clear kia jai.
- noorclinic.com ko chating aur friendship website na banne dia jai
4. ap dono se darkhast hai keh ap dono is website par hamesha mojood rahe takeh aise log jo keh noorclinic ki policy ke khilaf ho on ko propar jawab dia ja sake.
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khoobsurat |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 32 Post: 326 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 6:21am |
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re: My Reply thank u so much 4 ur nice comments. |
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Waqar |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jul, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 6:39am |
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Khoobsurat, I like your comments, very realistic. |
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