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1. shadi k time larki say uski marzi puchhi jati hai. larki k Qabool karnay par or uskay signature shadi k time liye jatay hain. or wo ye sab tab hi karti hai jab usay shadi karni ho.
2. jab us larki nay itnay gavahon (witness) k samnay agreement (nikah nama) par sign kar diye or larkay ko kabool kar lia to wo us banday ki bv ban gaee and they are allowed to do sex.
kuch larkiyan shadi say waisay hi ghabrati hain, lelkin shadi k baad bohat khush rehti hain... lekin jinko ronay ki adat ho (nashukray log) unko dunia ki sari khushyan bi day do to bi unka rona khatam nai hota.
3. husband wife ka apas mai sex karnay say dono ko sawab milay ga..
4. for muslims, shadi karna sunnat hai (sawab ka kaam) or sawab hasil karnay ki bhook sab ko honi chahiye..
5. it is not sex ki bhook, shadi is a swaab ki bhook and a legal way to fulfil sexual desires. is liye jab shadi ho gaee to mian bv ka har lamha jo aik dosray ki mohabbat mai guzra us say sawab milay ga...
6. same kind of different questions. bachay bi jaez hai or shadi bi jaez hai.
jab shadi hoti hai to nikah nama (agreement between husband n wife) par dono larka or larki signature kartay hain, or bohat say log is baat k gavaah (witness) hotay hain. or agreement par kuch witness sign bi kartay hain. so agar larki shadi k baad ye kahay k meri pasand ki shadi hi nai hai to ye to waisay hi bohat galat baat hai or agreement ki khilafwarzi...
lekin phir bi shadi k baad bi agreement khatam karnay ka right bi dono k pas hota hai.. jo couple agreement khatam nai kartay wo samajh lain k bohat khush hain.. or wo samajhtay hain k ham aik dosray k bina nai reh saktay.
aik or baat bata don k wife ka kaam hai husband ki respect karna, or i think hindu religion mai bi aisa hi hai k wife apnay husband ki respect karti hai.. jin logo nay jabran (zabardasti forcefully) sex karna hota hai wo log shadi nai kartay, wo apni havas bina shadi k puri kar laitay hain,, jo shadi kartay hain wo shareef log hotay hain, sex between husband & wife is a kind of pyar mohabbat.. ab husband apni wife say pyar karna chahta hai, to wife ka farz hai k wo ya to husband ki respect kartay huey pyar ka jawab pyar say day or uski baat maan lay or husband ko pyar karnay ka moka day, ya phir achay tareekay say apnay husband ko convince karnay ki koshish karay k abi mood nai hai ye koi or kaam hai etc.. lekin agar husband na manay to bv ka farz hai k sab kaam chhor day or husband ko time day or uski desire puri karay.
miss riya kindly change your marital status in your profile if you are married. or bara acha laga k kuch members india say bi hain.. we all welcome you on this forum. |
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