Flirt Of Boy Friend After Having Sex With Me: Please Give Some Advice

salam mujhay ye batana ha apko k maira aik boy friend tha us ne mujhay sex kia aur mujhse bohat se waday kiay humara afair 4 saal raha us ne mujhay kaha k me tum se shahdi karo ga magar us ne mujhay dhoka dia aur kisi aur larki se shahdi karli me usay sachay dil se chahti thi  laikiun us ne aisa kia ab mujhay ye maloom karna ha k mujhay manses hoay ha mujhay us k sath sex karay 5 mahinay hogai aur mujhay pancho mahinay manses hoay mujhay ye maloom karna ha k jab mairi kisi se shahdi hogi to kya usay pata chal jai ga plz help me main ye baat kisi se share nahi karsakti plz

aur me ne ALLAH se bohat mafian mangi ha aur is tikhara bhi kia tha maafi k baad jis me mujhay khushi mili laikin mairi niyat saaf thi us k sath plz mujhay koi aisa mashwara dain k mairay dil ko tasalli milay ab me apne maa baap ko kabhi dukh nahi daina chahti mujhay bohat bari thokar lagi ha

I want to tell you that I have had a boy friend and he has done sex with me so many times. He had done a lot of promises with me that he would do marry with me but at last he had done flirt with me and he had married with some other girl. I had loved with him from the depth of my heart but he has done it. Five months passed since the last sex I had done with him and now I have got menses in all previous five months. I want to ask that whenever I will marry with some then whether my husband would come to know about these events. Please help me since I can’t share this thing with any one else. I have asked mercy from Allah so many times, and I have done Istekara after having repented from Allah and I have got good new in that. I had been good intentions with him. Please give me some sort of advice that would satisfy me. I don’t want to hurt my parents any more since I have got a big punishment.

aslamoalikom

eska wahid hul hy Toba ek suchi toba pher purda dalny wali Allah ki zaat hy

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tannia

nahi yeh baat kisi ko pata nahi chalna chahie.....

aap baar baar Allah se toba kare, aur apna gunnah muaf karne k lie duaien kare, aur apna future sirf Allah k bharose par chor de, agar ap ka dil saaf hai, to life bhi clear hogi, insha Allah

yes agree with sunny

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ji

ye sex befour shadi ka nuteeja hy

lurki ko apni uzzut ka  tahufaaz kurna chaiye or jub sahdi sy phy sex kur leya jata hy tu esy wo kushish khtam ho jati hy wo mohabat khtam ho jati hy ku k ye koi husband wife ka releation tu ni hota k jis meh Allah diloo k durmiyaan mohabat dal dyta hy

najayz rishty meh Allah mobabat ni dalta so jub tuk shadi na ho jay sex ka sochna b ni chaiye

tannia

but aisa kuon hota ha k ap kisi ko itnay dil se chaho uski har baat puri karo aur woh apko chor jai

aisa hamesha nahee hota.. ager app islam ki hadood main reh ker allah se apni muhabbat mang leti to allah pak app ko ata ker dete...  tum ne rule tora aur allah pak ne tumhe lesson dya... Sachi muhabbat allah aur uske rasool ke lea sab se ziada honi chahe baad main dosre insan.. ager app aisa kerti to us larke ki pyar main andhi na hoti ... ager allah chahe.. to inshallah app ki shadi bhut khobsorat guzre ge..  Preshan hone ki bjai sirf aur sirf allah se rajooh karo kyonke uske hukam se insan, Husband aur parents ke muamlat chalte hain... Allah se madad mang lo aur darood e pak i kasrat karo... next jo bhi ho apni taqdeer samjh ker qabool karo.. and dont worry anymore after toba..

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i agree with system.

tannia har cheez ki kuch limits hotin hain khair ap bewaqoof to hain nahi or sab cheezon se waqif bhi hain lekin ap jaisi or bhi faltoo larkian hain muashre main jo k aisa kar rahin hain or aik din apki tarah pachtaingi.Allah un cheap larkion ko hidayat de.

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Tania...........me apki problem se waqif hoon aur tension se bhi....sub theik hojaiga tum parishan na hon

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Tania...........me apki problem se waqif hoon aur tension se bhi....sub theik hojaiga tum parishan na hon

me kya karo

Hayyyyy Yeh Mohabbat

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tannia

is ka jawab in logon k pass nahi he mere pass he

tum sach keh rahi ho tumhara dil toot jata he or tum ab b usse bahut muhaabbat karti ho or yehhi sach he

us ko bolo ager tum muj se ab bahut muhaabbat karte ho tu court merriage karlo asse b islam main 4 shadiyan jahiz hain koi bat nahi karlo

or ye b nahi kar sako tu tumhari muhaabbbat pher sachi nahi he ager sachi he tu ye karlo tumhain bura nahi manna chahi he

or han is taran wo tumain mil jaye ga hamesha k liye jab shadi hojaye pher khul kar khena tum is ki biwi ho

black mail karo dekho pher kya hota khud wo tumhare pass aye ga hehehe karo inshalla tumhara pyar tumhain mile ga

Ek looser larki ki taran ye mat socho main kya karon kahan jahon kaise maron

kya karon darti rahogi tu kuch hasil nahi kar sakti mager hasil karo raaz ki taran or jab waqt aye tu raaz khul do maine asse log bahut dekhain main b un main se ek banon ga

duniya ko mat dekho ager us ko pana he wo ab b tumhare hath main he usse court merraige karlo wo tumhara kam he us ko kis taran pagal bana kar karni he

us ko bolo tumhain jo karna he karo shadi karlo pher hum jo karain kam se kam gonah nahi hoga

pher waqat anay par tum sab ko bata do meri shadhi hogayi he

yar main ek larki se pyar karta hon shahid 5 month bad main canada jarah hon wo muje bola rahi he kyun ke wo aglay month jaye gi pher us k pechay main jahon ga

yahan us k ghar walay nahi mantay hain shadi ko

or mere ghar walay b nahi mantay hain  meri mangni ho chuki he mager meri mangni k bad ye larki ayi he or us ne muje bahut pyar kiya or main us ko b hasil karon ga or apni mangter ko b hehehe

4 shadiyan islam main jahiz hain :)

tannia

Last advice was a total nonsense. Tania tum bus ALLAH say forgiveness mango. Aur koi acha rishta ho tto foran Shadi karro aur apna ghar bassao, I am not against LOVE (with spouse) but listen hum log Mohabbat ko roog bana laitay hain which is wrong. Just move on and get married. Insan tto agar kisi animal k sath b waqt spend karray tto us say b mohabbat ho jati hai because ye mohabbat key feelings kisi aik shaks k liyay nahi hoti. Tum shadi karr lo tumhain apnay husband say b mohabbat ka ehsas paida ho ga because it’s natural. Agar kisi aik insan per mohabbat khatam ho jatti tto loog (both males and females) dosri shadi nahi kartay.

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if ur hymen is ruptured don’t worry atall, cos hymen rapture key multiple reason ho sakti hain sirf intercourse nahi, child hood cycling, playing, jumping ya accident say b hymen rapture ho sakta hai. So you can play around these reasons in ur marital life if required.

Yeah Mr.good guy multiple reasons hosaktein hain lekin ye ksi shareef larki k saath hosakta hai jo larki zina kare 20 baar us ko ye baat kehna ajeeb hai wo bachi nahin hain unko bhi pata hai un ka hymen kaise rapture hua hai.

azfar-91

Try to understand English. Main nay ye nahi kaha k tannia ka hymen child hood cycling, playing, jumping ya accident say rapture howa hoga, it’s obvious k agar us ka hymen ruptured ho gya hai to reason most likely sexual intercourse he hai. Aur mera multiple reasons batanay ka maqsad ye tha k agar taania k husband ko ruptured hymen ka pata chal b jaye to taania multiple reasons ko base bana kar such per parda dal sakti hai just to satisfy her husband, aur agar such bolnay key courage hai to such bolday.

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