How To Get Excitement And Pleasure During Intercourse?

 i just want to ask that itz been almost 8 months till i got married but i never had orgsam and this has also reduced my sexual desires i was reading some literature regarding this on internet where i came to know that only 20% of women experience vaginal orgasm other women have orgasm through clitoris stimulation like usually girls do during masturbation. In my case i dont know exactly but during intercourse i never find some thing pleasurable as if i never urge for something deep even if my husband do it for a longer duration. but i like the feeling of his body around the upper portion of vaginal area but it is left ignored during intercourse.... i want to ask if it is normal and if it is normal  which method we can use for this kind of stimuation where he can enjoy intercourse and i can also enjoy. or may b we can focus on one person pleasureable at a time. i am just confused about how i can tell my husband about it as if he massages my vaginal area with hand i dont feel comfortable but when he do it with the help of his leg i enjoy it but am unable to communicate him the best position which can give me orgasm by slow massage i dont know if i will get orgasm thorugh it but i want to try it as new thing if any one can suggest me a way to do it ........ please help me coz even my husband is annoyed because am lossing interest in sex but i dont have orgasm

Clitoris stimulation during sex

shyy18

use women on top position

ap women on top position use krin es position meh ap apni movemnents ko khod controle kur sukti hyn or i think you will enjoy but this position is not good for baby making ku k sperms wo under ni jaty properly

baki ap doggy position use kurin es meh penis deep jata hy or ap k G spot ko hit kury ga or ho sukta hy ap orgasm pa lyn

mostly men ye ni janty k orat ko b satisfection ke zrorat hoti hy sex ka muza tu men leyty hen pur murd jub release hony k time py ata hy real tast os time feel ho ra hota hy so women b same hen

so murd ko chaiey k wo zura prperly forplay kury or pher intercours start kury or ayesta ayesta stroks lugay ta k wife b orgasm tuk ponch suky jub women orgasm k kureeb ho ge tu ap ko vagina phyly sy ziyada tight feel ho ge , women vagina ko tight kur lyti hy or orgasm k time pani chorti hy

clitoris ko murd tune kur sukta hy sath sath ta k juld ap ko orgams dy suky but ye zroori b ni hota k ho e ho jesy ap ny study keya bot sari women ko ni b hota pregency k ley important ni hota etna

intercourse ek achy or dostaana mahool meh kurin pory dyhaan sy pory romantic mood meh or ho suky tu light ko off rukin ta k dono enjoy kur sukin ku k some time women uneasy feel kurti hyn light meh so husband ko wife ke es khwaysh ka khiyaal rukhna chaiy

baki ap khod sy study jari rukhin or es foram py jo book hy osy b read kurin or husband ko b study kurny ko khayn

Clitoris stimulation during sex

Clitoris stimulation during sex

Clitoris stimulation during sex

Clitoris stimulation during sex: Shyy18

 Following my earlier reply with suggestion of woman on top technique for sex play, you may want to consider a few variations while consulting your partner. 1) You sitting on your partner’s hard rod facing him looking at his face and start to slowly grind and ride. 2) You sitting on his hard, facing away from him, your face facing his feet.  When you sit on his raising rod, start to swing/sway your hips gently without pumping and riding his rod first. After the hip swinging you can grind his rod.

Are you sufficiently stimulated and aroused before he thrusts his penis into your vaginal opening? Do you normally receive tender loving care for your clit before engaging in actual coupling? Foreplay would set the stage for further erotic acts. First, you may need to be erotically stimulated and aroused. Foreplay: Gentle massaging, licking and sucking of your boobs and tits, and at the same time he gently wanders into your love garden and finds your clit and ever so gently massages it by finger feather touch (of your clit hood). This would of course be followed by a slow rhythm of your clit being gently licked and sucked, and your minor vaginal lips stroked and licked as well. If your vagina is not wet, if you are not sexually aroused or stimulated at this point, you can be proactive and set the stage for erotic play by stimulating your clit by gentle finger massaging, which could excite your sex.

 One variation that could help is: he penetrates your vagina from behind; bend or arch your butt, elevate your hips thus exposing your vaginal lips. He enters sort of kneeling behind you; he thrusts his rod aiming for the front end of your vagina penetrating this way may give you some clitoral contact. 

shy

I agree with Dr Qasim, i'd like to add that in a husband wife relationship u don't have to be shy to express urself, communication during love-making can give u more pleasure n turn him on too, every man wants to satisfy his woman to be praised about his performance.

Have intercourse when you feel like it, this way u'd feel every move he makes, try a longer foreplay, have him touch n stimulate your clitoris, during penetration you can go on top, have him grab you by ur love handles n help you move n u could stimulate ur clit urself. If not you can have ur husband do it after he finishes off.

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thankz

Thankz alot for all the suggestions i will try doing them but i am at times unable to express my self to my husband because i think i need longer foreplay but at times during all this i start loosing interest. one of the reason i dont know y but in our society y is this prolonged misconception that females only enjoy vaginal orgasms even i was not aware of it but my husband still belives in vaginal orgasm and he always try to give that pleasure to me i think because its good for him to00...

Shyy18

<<Thankz alot for all the suggestions i will try doing them but i am at times unable to express my self to my husband because i think i need longer foreplay but at times during all this i start loosing interest. one of the reason i dont know y but in our society y is this prolonged misconception that females only enjoy vaginal orgasms even i was not aware of it but my husband still belives in vaginal orgasm and he always try to give that pleasure to me i think because its good for him to00...>> Yes, regardless of how it happens, he enjoys it even if you may not feel excited and get much pleasurable clit stimulation.

<<i think i need longer foreplay but at times during all this i start loosing interest.>> Yes, with longer foreplay you are more turned on and by mutual stimulation of clitoris, you feel more delight. In certain positions, your partner can massage your clit while penetrating your vagina and  riding you; you can also stimulate your clit while his penis is thrusting your vagina.  

The misconception that you are talking about is there through out the world but it is changing as women are beginning to understand more and more of their vaginal structure, different anatomical areas of their vagina, etc. Scientists are just beginning to gain more understanding of this. The key is not to worry too much about these distinctions, vaginal and clitoral, and focus on getting turned on and gaining more sexual pleasure.

Vaginal organism has generally been described as an orgasm triggered by stimulation of the front vaginal wall without any simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris. This may be oversimplification. Researchers I have difficulty making a distinction between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoris orgasm, since most orgasms appear to involve the clitoris (directly or indirectly). And just think of it: if you are having intercourse, even if it feels like what is sending you to orgasm is stimulation of a certain place in the vagina, the clitoris is likely still being stimulated by your partner’s genitals or pubic bone. How can we really separate the two?

 Women are all different. Some women will have certain area within the vagina which will be very sensitive.  

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Orgasm related to movement and physical therapy focusing on the pelvic floor…

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 False controversy?

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By Harris, Helena

Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice. Vol 13(1), Spr 1976, 99-103.

Abstract

Argues that the reluctance of many psychoanalysts to attribute a capacity for sexual pleasure to women has led them to ignore or refuse to accept relevant scientific evidence and thereby continue a questionable clinical practice. Their reluctance is manifested by their efforts to perpetuate a belief in the occurrence of "vaginally-stimulated" orgasms and to reorient their female patients from the clitorally-stimulated orgasms they regard as characteristic of the emotionally immature woman to the vaginally-stimulated orgasms they regard as characteristic of the woman who has reached emotional maturity. Nevertheless, Masters and Johnson (1966) have established that clitoral and vaginal orgasms are biologically the same. The present author cites the explanation of H. Kaplan (1974) who notes that although the female orgasm involves direct or indirect stimulation of the clitoris, it is always located and is largely experienced in and around the vagina. 

Shyy18

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Orgasm related to movement and physical therapy focusing on the pelvic floor…

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False controversy?

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By Harris, Helena

Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice. Vol 13(1), Spr 1976, 99-103.

Abstract

thankuu

Shyy