Re: Shaani (Wedding Night's Dua)
When both of you intends to do Sex , please consider the following points : - Attend nature's call (if there is need of it)
- Wash your genitals properly
- Do Wuzu and receite Bismillah... before Wuzu and Dua after Wuzu
- Then pray the 2 Rikaat Nafil and then husband should put hands on her wife's forehead and mention ALLAH Most High, and pray for HIS blessings saying the following Dua :
"Allaahumma innee as'aluka min khairiha wa khairi maa jabaltaha 'alaihi wa a'oodhubika min sharriha wa sharri maa jabaltaha 'alaihi" [O Allaah, I ask You for the good in her and the good with which You have created her, and I seek refuge in You from the evil in her and the evil with which You have created her.] - Do long foreplay until wife's vagina gets wet and she open her legs by herself not by the force of husband
- Then try to insert 1 finger inside wife's vagina and then ready for the intercourse
- But when you are about to enter your penis into your wife's vagina , you should always say first :
"Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna" [In the name of Allah, O Allah, keep us away from the devil, and keep the devil away from that which You may grant us (ie. offspring).] About this, the Prophet said: "After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child".
And don't leave the wife in the bed alone until she gets orgasm and then do Ghusul or atleast pass urine and make Wuzu ..... and then a Happy Sleep ..... Enjoy !
|