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DaisyDot |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 6 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 12:57am |
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 I Dont Want To Become Pregnant
Only Docs are requested to reply. I am 21 years old unmarried girl. I fell in love with a boy; first we started talking on phone only but gradually he insisted for meetings and subsequently started going on dates as and when got opportunity. Initially our meetings were limited to discussions only but then we came closer to each other; he started fondling my body and insisted for kissing. He did not live in his limits and then started demanding for more and more.... Last month we met in his friend's place that intentionally provided us some space and privacy for many hours. My BF asked me for stripping; I refused and blushed but when he insisted and swore that he will not harm me I could not resist and took off my entire clothes. He hugged and embraced me for several minutes; kissed my privates. He tried to go further but I resisted and went back home. Now the position is that on each date he insists for the same and I do (hum nay ab tak kuch nahi kia mager lagta hay ke woh aaj kal main meri zaroor lay ga). Plz help me and advise that which medicine I should buy and use before going on a date that can prevent me from becoming pregnant? I DO NOT want to do anything wrong but cannot resist myself when with him. He insists and I do but I don't want to become pregnant in any case. Hope you will advise and help.
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sunny_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 1:10am |
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RE:Help needed URGENTLY Dear first of all..keep in mind tht aap o koi dr rep nahee karega ..and agr kia b tu .. u know better k kia hoga rep..! bcoz u do bad ..! and it is illegal ..! is me aap ki koi help nahee karega..!
men b aap ki bus itni hi help karsakta hon k ..aap se agr sex k beghr raha nahee ja rah tu os s shadi karlen..! aur Allah se mafee mangen..!
otherwise no advise for uu ..bcoz aap gunnah kar rahi hen aur sath poch rahi hen k kuch na b ho ... its really bad..! |
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DaisyDot |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 6 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 1:30am |
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Sunny I think you did not read my post carefully. I was telling that I DO NOT want to do anything wrong but he insists and I obeys him. I am in love with him and do not want to make him sad. When I refuse he becomes sad and how can I can do that? I am helpless.
Secondly, I can't get married at this stage. I am just 21 and have to complete my studies. How can I tell this to my parents? How can I get married without their will? But tell me how can I resist?
Thirdly, this forum is meant to help each other, if you do not have a piece of good advice then please stay away but let others to respond. Kia mein aap ki behn nahi? kia mera yeh haq nahi keh koi mujhay bhi is muskil say nikaalay? |
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sunny_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 1:45am |
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RE:Help needed URGENTLY dear i dont want to tease u ok..!aapki help hi ki .. i jus se k aap ne first rep men jis tarah its look like ..aap gunnah karahi ho ..aur precaution b poch rahi ho..! " but he insists and I obeys him" y u obey him .. yaqenan aap musalman ho gi ..tu kia ho aap ka shohar he jo aap ose obey kar rahi ho..its gair mehram for u ..! aap namaz parhen aur Allah se mafee mangen .. agr apko us se itna hi pyar he tu aap Allah se hi dua karen k wo aap ki mushkilat ko door karey..! plz plzz os ki bat manney ki zarorat nahee..! wo aap se kahega k kuwen men chlange lagado ya apne parents ko mardo tu kia aap ye karlogi ...! bolen..! iska sab se asan hal yahi he k 5 waqt ki namaz parhen filhal os s dor raho.. mjy yakeen he Allah tala koi na koi hal zaror nikale ga..! "How can I get married without their will?" aap ko apni parents ka agr itna hi kyal he tu na karen aisa sabar karen shadi tak ... spni studies per tahaja dean..!
At last aap ki madad hi ki he isme koi aisee bat nahee ki jis se aap o nuqsabn ho ..bulke aap khod apne liye mushkilat khari kar rahi hen.. hope u understnd ..tc |
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naamshahid |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Jul, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 116 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 2:03am |
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DaisyDost Dear i don't know wat kind of love is this?
it is not a love it is just sexual satisfaction and u r saying that u don't want to do wrong u have done wrong by getting naked in front of him, remeber one thing if any one true in one's love he/she doesn;t touch each other, and one thing more when he will means ur BF fulfill his sexual satisfaction he will leave u becoz now a days he is taking u in confidence after that he will do whatever he wants to do, ok and such kind of persons u don't have any idea becoz after getting sexual satisfaction they say that if u will do wrong with that ver guy u can do with any where.
So it is my advise to u so don't long your friendship with him, he will harm you, and also fear from ALLAH, how many years u can live here tell me, r u Muslim? no becoz in Islam there is no boy and friend concept.
so get marriage with him u can check him, he is sincere with you or not, |
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naamshahid |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Jul, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 116 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 2:05am |
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DaisyDost In Islam there is no girl friend and boy friend concept, ok it is better u marry with him |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 3:38am |
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daisy dot first sunny ka reply bilkul thik hai....ap kia samjahti hai k agar ap su se love kerti hain to ap k liye ye illegal kam gunnah nahi hai?????? love ka matlab ye to nahi k ap kuch bi kerti raheyn ya wo kuch bi ap se kahey to ap ki bat maan leyn....Allah se nahi dartin ap?????? agar zara sa bi Allah ka khauf hai to ap is tarhan k kaam bi chor deyn aur aisi bateyn bi...
secondaly....ap ye samjahti hain k ap 21 sal ki hain aur ap ko abi studies complete kerni hain to apna dhyan sirf wahin lagayen...is love shove mein chakar mein abi na peryen...agr wo such mein ap se pyar kerta hai to us se kaheyn k ap ka wait kerye aur in chezon se dur rahey...love ka matlab sex nahi balke ek dusrey ki care kerna aur sacrifice kerna hai
thirdly, ap ko yahan per sahi advices diye gaye hain....agar ap ko ye ghalat lagtay hain to ye hamara nahi ap ka kasoor hai bcoz ap chahi hain k hum k illegal kamon ki tareef keryen aur ap ko in se bachnay k liye medicne batayn...takey ap illegal kam bi keryen aur pregnnant bi na hon....is kam k liye hum log nahi baithay....no one will tell u medicine....agr hamare replies se ap ko taskeen anhi milti to ap ye forum chor skti hain |
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mna1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 4:22am |
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Khuda Kay wasty Us say milna Choor Dain DaisyDot..... Sister... Khuda kay wast us say milna choor dain...
ALLAH ka sukar hai kay abhi kuch nhi bigra... Just Think... keya us ko aap say peyar hai... khabi Koyee Apni ghar main bhi choory karta hai...
Hum Sab say zeyada aap ko Yaqeen hai kay woo aap kay sath intercourse zaroor kary ga... is ka matlab hai he just wants to have sex with you... nothing else... and Mark my words... Once he is done with you he will move on to other girl... He has nothing to lose... but you have to lose a lot of things...
Why You are obey him... is he your husband... or you are his slave... in every relation... mutual understaning is the most important thing.... how you can say that you have to obey him...
Bottom Line.... A Person in love can never think of sex... even if they are married... This is just LUST... and you will pay a heavy price if you do not stop right now... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 4:41am |
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mna1978 very good reply very good |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 5:46am |
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rE: Daisy Ab is types ki love stories amm hogae hain, jismain kuch din tak pyaar ka natak kar k larki ko phansa lia jata hai aur phir jab uski izzat se achi tarha dil bhar jata hai tou usay farisgh kardia jara hai.
Ye koi new love story nahi hai, bachpan se suntay hoe arahay hain aesi stories aur ab tou ye amm baat hogae hai iske bawajood app jesi larkiyan sabak hasil nahi karti hain (is baat se andaza hota hai k larkiyan kitni bewakoof aur kam akal hoti hain).......aur apna sab kuch lutanay per razi hoti hain phir jab har cheez se haath dho bethti hain tab khayal ata hai. k mujhse ghalti hogae, aur future main ye hota hai k phir mard buray lagnay lagtay hain, pyar se aetbaar uth jata hai etc etc
Apke case main bhi saaf zahir hai k ye love nahi hai balkay apko bewakoof banakar use kia jaraha hai love k naam pe......kisi larki ko Pyaar main phansana hi ek aesa hathyar hai jis se larki sab kuch lutanay per razi hojati hai, jese k app......
likin abhi kuch nahi bigra,.....app isko pyaar samajhna bund karain aur us larkay se alag hojayen foran yehi apka solution hai, warna agay k results buhut khatarnaak hain apke liyain......phir na pachtana baad main ,abhi wakt hai, sab nay same hi advices di hain apko. baaki apki marzi hai.
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 5:55am |
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hitman ay hui na gallllllllllllllllll
good yarrrrrr
kamal ker ditaaaaaaa |
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DaisyDot |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 6 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 7:44am |
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To All who reponded Listen all,
Thanks for da advises but how can I stop myself? I am seriously in love with him (sabhi kuch to maan liya hay us ko). If I don't meet him, I get upset, I jsut can't live without him but am too much worried about his demands. I want a pure and clean love with him but he is the one who is demanding sex (I am not) but I am a human being; have some feelings and can feel sensations in my body when he touches me while I am naked. I have gone too far (want to come back without any harm) but how? It is true he is not my husband or I am not his slave but I have given him my heart fully and completely. His happiness is my foremost objective in life. If I stop meeting him, he will get upset and according to him he can commit suiside if I don't meet him and obey him.
Now please tell me what should I do? Should I stop meeting him for good and take some pills, so that I can forget him forever? Reply me..... and where are the doctors????? Why don't they reply and isn't there any girl or woman who can advise me? Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. |
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sunny_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 8:03am |
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RE:DaisyDot i think u dont read my last rep..may be koi b aap ko rep na kare.. and y dr replies uu..aap konsa naik kam karrahi hen ..! i dont want to rude with u ..aap apni ghalti manne ko tayyar hi nahee..! Dear Plzzz PLzzz abhee kuch nahee hoa ..sambhal jao plzz..! Musalman nahee ho kia aap ..! Allah per yakeen nahee he kia aapko..! NAmaz parho Dil se girgira ka mango Allah se .. jitni ohabbat baqol aapke aap os se karti ho is se aadhi he agr Allah se karlo tu sari pareshanion s nijat mil jayegi ..! and na aap ko koi pills khane k zarorat paregi..! aur dear aap ki madad hi ki he .. bcoz hamari comments s aap ko faida ho sakta he koi nuqsan nahee ...but jo aap karne ja rahi ho wo aapke liye nuqsan de he..! t.c |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 12:30pm |
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 DaisyDot
i will suggest you to read Hitman post again agian and again.. untill you realize the moral ..
is baat se koi inkaar nahee kar rha ke app ko un se love hogya hai... aur app ka love waqi sacha bhi lagta hai... laikin us larke ka love sacha nahee lagta .. mere behan app thora to ghor karen.. uske love per... ham sab larke hain aur hum aise bhut sare larkon ko jante hain jo aisa khel khelte hain... tu inte sare logon ne mashwra dya hai khuda ke lea apne si pukhaloos pyar ke samndar ko roko... app aik hi sorat main wapis a sakti hain aur woh yeah hai ke app apne lover ke love ko perkhen... us se kaho ager love karte ho to mere jisam ko touch na kare.. but aisa nahee hoga.... dont ever go back with himm... ager love ko nahee rok sakti to kum az kum tanhai main to na milo ... |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 12:54pm |
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About My love Daisy app ko rokne ke lea thora sa apni love history share karna chahon ga ... jub mujhe pyar how tha to aise hi lgta tha jesa app ko lagta hai... aise lagta tha ke ager usko na dekah to dil rok jai ga. .. raaton main uth ker rota tha.. yeah song fit hota tha .. meri neend gai mera chain gya... har roz deedar karna hai no matter what.. ghar main funny banda main hi tha laikin love ke baad bara khamosh aur udas rehta tha.. yahan tak ke meri bari sister ne ghor kya aur mujhe istrah dekh ker ro pari.. aur bhut majboor kya ke btao kya howa hai.. laikin bhut pakka tha main... app ka aur mera love taqreeban aik hi jesa hai.. main bhi koi ghalat kam nahee karna chahta tha aur app bhi nahe chahti. aur main ne kabhi apne mehboob ko istrah touch nahee kya aur sex feelings bhi nahee ain...halanke app larki hain aur main larka . hum dono ka pyar to aik jesa hi hai... to phir app ke boyfriend ka pyar different kyon hai... .. aj main aik different larki se married with kids hon aur alhamdulilh bhut bhut khush hon...
apni history kabhi share to nahee karna chahta tha but app ko gunah se rokne ke lea hum ne yeah bhi ker dya ap please app bhi khuda lea kuch karen aur rok jain is gunah se..... ameen.. |
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Ahmad Lati |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 73 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 4:41pm |
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 theek hai
Aapy aap uc ko choor kar kisi or kay saath friendship kar lain larkon ki kami hai kia ic dour main preshaan nahien hona aap abhi haan karain larkon ki lines lug jaye gi theek hai. |
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angel_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jul, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 5:34pm |
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reply DaisyDot,
i just read only two of your post in which you wrote that you cant make your bf sad thats y you obey him...... it means ap Allah ko naraz kar sakti hain aur apnay bf ko nahi.... gunah kar kai help mang rahi hain..... yani samandar mein chalang bhi laga rahi han aur phir kehti hain mein bach bhi jaoo... demagh toh set hai... yeh forum islamic discussion k liyee yani islam kai point of view sai sex ki maloomat.... na k kisi haram kaam kai liyee apki help ki jaii..... meri taraf sai toh kisi chulo bhar pani mein dhoob marain..... that would be better for you and girls like you....!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Lionidus |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jul 2009, 8:33pm |
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DaisyDot Agar app itni loyal hain apnay BF say aur us ki hur baat manti hain tu yahe cheez app us say kyo nahi expect karti kay wo bhe app ki hur baat manay
Test Him in real sense,,, Usay kaho agar tm mjh say sacha payar kartay ho tu meri ya baat maan lo aur may ya baat ek he dafa kaho ge baar baar nahi
Usay kahy mjhay ayenda say ya kaam karnay ka na kehna kyoo kay ya mjhay bilkul bhe pasand nahi aur yeh baat sakhti say kehna na kay aaram say aur agar tm apnay payar kay davay may sachay ho tu atleast apnay parents ko bhejo,, chahye may abhi studies kar rahi hu lakin may tmhari side lu ge aur atleast mangni tu ho he jaye hmar
Agar wo ya baat sun kar udas ho jaye to samjh jaye wo Hawas ka pujari hay kyo kay ek dafa karnay kay bad us ka bar bar ka karna us ko Hawas ka pujari zahir karta hay
,,, Sacha payar Ruhani payar hota hay jis may insaan apnay app ko satisfy is tarha karta hay kay wo apnay mehboob ki izzat ko apni izzat say agay rakhta hay na kay us ki ezzat ko kharab karna chata hay wo koi kaam aesa nahi karta jis say us kay mehboob kay aanchal may daagh lagay
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mna1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jul 2009, 1:01am |
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DaisyDot Dear Sister... Please Apni Ankhain Kholain...
After Reading your post i feel very sorry for your boy friend... mujy us par tars aa raha hai... woo Itna Peyar karny wali larki ko apni hawas ka Neshana Bana raha hai... You are a pertect girl to spend whole life with... App aik perfect wife ban sakty hain jo larki aap jtna peyar karty ho us ka har husban khawab dekhat hai
But The Question is..
Does he deservs You... Keya woo aap ko deserv karta hai... Khabi nhi... App Mujy Khud Bateen Jis larki ko aap pani Izat Banany ka scooch rahoon hoon... Us kay sath sary zindagy betany ka sooch rahy hoon too phir keya us kay sath aap HARAM kaam kar sakty hain... Mery Behan aap khud soochain...
Aap Us ko azmayeen....
Dekhain Behan Ya aap ka haq hai kay aap us ko azmayeen... Agar woo aap say scha peyar karta hai to woo phir bhi aap say door nhi jayee ga... aur agar woo aap say scaha peyar nhi karta too khud he aap say door ho jayee ga...
Ab Azmana kesy hai ya aap par hai... Agar main aap ki jaga hota to us say chand din milna choor deta... koye bahana bana kar... aur agar milta bhi to kisi public place par... Taky wooo koye aesy wasy harkat na kar saky.... And for once ask him will he allow his sister to do the same with he boyfriend....
Think About The consequences....
Just Think what could happen if he has intercourse with you... you will be destroyed
You Will loose your virginity(Your Hymen will be ruptured)
Your husband can find out (due to ruptured hymen) that you had Intercourse before marriage... I said this point as I am 100% sure that he will not marry you..
Think about your parents, What effect on there life will be... Is the love of your parents is more than the love you have for a playboy... Who Does not Honor you
And Last...
You could get pregnant... There is no Medicine in the world that can 100% block conception.... Further more... he will not use the condom... as he has nothing to loose... If you get pregnant,,, you know what could be the consequences....
So please open your eyes.... Leave Him For good... Because he do not deserve your love... Only a person that commits to live with you for the rest of his life deserves Your true love
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razigul |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jul 2009, 2:59am |
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your reply apko bhat suke hai to ap mill lain ..........? lakin
is kay bad kia hoo ga
app jis say shadi karan gi us ko kya batian gi kay app say control nahi hota tha
this is bullshit |
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