 Disadvantages Of Masturbation
I am posting this post not with the view to contradict with anyone here on the forum or else n just with the view to share what I know and I just hope that it is taken with as much positivity as it can be n not thinking it a mere contradicting stuff with anyone's view or ideas….
Masturbation in girls and boys:
The most common arguments given in the favour of masturbation are
1)what if a person cannot control his sexual feelings????tu ye zina se tu behtar hena??
Magar mery khayal mai tu hum ashraf-ul-makhlooqat mai se isse leye han k humko control ha apne upper……aur hona chaheye….agar kissi se ramazan mai roza nai rakha jata due to lack of self control waisey wo young and healthy ha tu koi bhi aqalmand usko roza he rakhney ko kahey gana…take wo acha muslim bun sakey
2)There is not a specific ayat forbidding masturbation?
Magar jitna natural aur easy way lagta he apne sexual tension ko release karne ka tu Allah ne kahein ye kyun mention na kiya keh by doing this u can release ur sex tension until u get married….
3)there is not any proved scientific ill effects of masturbation….??
Well phley tu science ye bhi nai manti thei k zameen sun key gird chakar lagate ha….. scienc sirf wo knowledge ha jo insaan apni mehdood aqal se prove kar sakey….aur abhi science ne unn logo par masturbation ke nuqsanat batey jo zada karte han……tu ye daikhey k human body bohat diverse ha ..har insaan aik jaisa nai ha aur what is minimum for 1 person may be maximum for other…..plus how will we tell max n min…. aur kuch log tu bohat kum karey han masturbate aur ye sub unko ho jata he….
4) this is the method by which semen is passed if a person has not enough night falls?
Semen jo ha wo urine ke tarah ka excretory matter nai ha k jis ko bahar na iss tarah nikala jaye tou toxic material jama ho jaye ga…..science itself says k iss ke bahar nikalney ya na nikalney se faraq nai parta body par.
5)some people argue k g science also tells the beneficial effects of masturbation
science also tells the beneficial effects of alcohol……so what we r required to see is k benefit zada he ya nuqsan….
Lastly ye k ajjj ke door mai tu bohat mushkil ha sirf namaz aur roza se pious rehna???ya ho jana???
They think k aj k door mai jab illegal and vulgar things r sooo common tu banda masturbation k bagair pious nai reh sakta jabke aisa kehney se ap ye show karte han k PROPHET k zamaney mai ye kuch nai that u masturbation ka nai kaha gaya laikan as a muslim wue know Quranic teachings and Prophet teachings are for uptill doom's day so hum unn par na he shak karain…
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.)... " 24.30-31
What i believe is masturbation is like any of the addictions like ciggarette smoking u start wth 1 ciggarette n end up 2packs per day in long run......
Masturbation hazards on health::::
Erection of the penis is primarily although not wholly under the influence of parasympathetic nervous system/acetylcholine neurotransmitter..when a regular masturbator does masturbation parasympathetic system is turned on that release chemicals/neurotransmitters like acetylcholine,dopamine and serotonine…this also drains the bio energy of brain if done many a times also trigger dopamine-adrenaline-noradrenaline axis to release of these sympathetic pathway transmitters from adrenal gland and changes body chemical balance to sympathetic pathway…the combined effect of drainage n transmitter release from adrenal gland result in
1)semen leakage or premature ejaculation
2)poor concentration and memory loss
3)soft/non erect penis
4)Fatique
5)Lowback pain
6)eye floaters
therefore Allah created the mechanism of nightfall or ehtalam in unmarried person to release sex tension and marriage itself for those who have the ability of nikkah for release of sex tension in males and females.as He the Creator knows the best..
Masturbation from Islamic point of view:::
Beeshaq Quran mai aisi koi direct ayat nai jis mai typical masturbation ka word aya ho aur roka ho uss ko karney se but agar ye itna easy tha k sex tension release ho jaye tu Creator of humankind ne issko karney ka aik bar bhi bhe mention nai kya ...
And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7
what I get from this ayat is that till marriage we must protect our piousness n whatever we seek beyond this becomes illegal….in my view masturbation becomes illegal.
And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33
Jo log ye kehtey hank e unn key pass finances nai han for marriage n uptil then we can masturbate I feel they must get some lesson from this ayat. Plus ill again say if masturbation comes so naturally why wasn't it mentioned for these people??who cant afford marriage for a time being.
from the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him):
Abdullaah ibn Mas'ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah's Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066.
humko namaz parney ka tareeqa bhi tu Prophet se pata chala kunke whole method tu Quran mai nai ha , agar masturbation halal hoti tu messenger of Allah fasting ka na kehtey tu reduce sexual desire…
a narration from Hasan ibn Arfah
Nabi (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'Seven persons are such that Allah will not look at them on the Day of Qiyaamat nor will He purify them nor will He include them among the learned and Allah will enter them into Jahannam. They will enter Jahannam first except for those who repent. As those who repent Allah will accept their repentance.
A person who masturbates.
A person who performs the act of sodomy.
The person upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
A perpetual drunkard.
The person who hits his parents so much that they appeal for help.
The person who harms his neighbors so much so that they curse him.
The person who commits adultery with his neighbor's wife.
This is a Daeef(Weak) Hadith
next quoted material include from
Tafsir-al-Mazhari volume 12 page 94
its narration from Anas ibn Malik….
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'The person who performs Nikah with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed
quoted from those after sahaba
A narration by Sa'id ibn Jubayr "Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'Allah Taăla will inflict a punishment on a group of people because they played with their private parts.'
as narrated by Ata ibn Abi Rabah "Some people will be resurrected in such a condition that their hands will be pregnant, I think they are those who masturbate"
In the end ill just say k for masturbation sexy images,pictures and porn stuff is either seen or else imagined I don't believe to think or see such stuff is ethical and this only pollutes one's mind….zina sirf wo nai hota jo k private parts se kya jaye … zina hands,eyes and ears ka bhe hota he jab wo ye sub bad things daikhtey han ya kartey han …. When we fast we don't do all these things we are trying to be pious to gain self control ….and masturbation se fast bhi toot jata he …so I think we should avoid what is related to filthy thinking
Plus sum people argue k kisi aurat ke izzat lootney ya bazaar-e-husan ka member bananey se behtar he masturbation …to this I only say k hum mai aur animals mai ye faraq hona chahey k hum mai Allah ne self control rakha he not like animals ke jis marzi par ja kar sex etc kar lain…. And jo log ye sub karte han rape,adultery wo who log han jin ko masturbation ke option ho bhi tu unki sex satisfaction khatam nai hoge….
Humko ashraf-ul-makhluqat banana chahey,thora sa self control,nafas par qaboo can turn our lives into better state…
Agar masturbation ke clear ijjazat hoti islam mai tu aj log ye debate kar rai hotey ke mutual understanding se girlfriend n boyfriend sex kar lain…ye tu aisey ha key aik murder ke ijjazat ho tu log aik aur ka soochain.
baqe jo log iss baat par sticked han like a glue k scientific prove ho tu science insaan ke aqal par he jis ka ye haal he k
aj tak medicine wale ye debate karte han almost after every 5oyrz k desi ghee zada muzre sahat he ya refined oil ... kabhi dil ke leye aik bura ho jata he kabhe dosra
bohat se medicines past mai use hoti rahe han n ppl were used as guine pigs or experimental stuff n in long run side effects aa gaey!!
science tu iss par bhi debate karti ha k hen was born before egg or egg was formed first???
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