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charsi |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Oct 2008, 8:11am |
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 My Wife Do Not Cooperate Me In Sex
Assalam-O-Alaikum to every one. I would like to share my problem with you doctors/brothers and sisters. Any one would like to give me solution/advise should be highly appreciated. I am a 43Yrs married man, married since 6 yrs ago, having two beautiful childs. Jab se meri shadi hui he aik din bhi meri wife ne mujhe meri demand ke mutabiq sex nahee kiya. Woh sex ke bare me kuch bhi nahi janti aur us ko sex me kuch bhi achha nahi lagta. Na to woh french kiss pasand kartihe na hi woh apne breast ko haath lagane deti he na hi apne neeche haath lagane deti he. Aap log sochein ge ke phir tumhare 2 bachhey kese ho gaye?. To us ki waja ye he ke meri bivi ko shadi ke baad jald se jald pregnent hone ki khawahish thi is waja se us ne din raat mere saath sex kiya lekin "BILKUL BE-DIL" ho kar . Bachey to us ne peda kar hi liye. Aur ab bhi woh mere saath month me 2 baar sex karti he lekin 2 ya 3 minutes me khood farigh ho jaati he aur muje apne se alag hone kokehti he jab ke me kuch der mazeed kaam karna chahta hoon. Meri wife ke is attitude ki waja se me bohat dil bardashta ho jata hoon. Me ne us ko bohat samjhaya he ke kuch der na chahte huye bhi meri khatir "KAAM: kar liya karo lekin woh nahi manti. Mujh ko Allah ne sex me kafi strong banaya he aur me Sex karte huey 20 se 25 minutes leta hoon. Guzarne waley 6years me aik din bhi mujhe Khushi ka mehssos nahee hua. Bohat dafa socha ke doosri shadi kar loon lekin apne bachhon ki waja se nahee ki. Kabhi kabhi khayal aata he ke bivi jis tarah se he use aise hi rehne diya jaye aur apni sex desire ko poora karne ke liye koi doosra option maslan PROSTITUTION waghera use kiya jaye. Lekin phir sochta hoon ke yeh Gunah-e-Kabeera he.
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Oct 2008, 10:14am |
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ok charshi sahib may be ur wife is not satisfied mentally to marriage with you......and she only want to become mother............is it right? |
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reliever |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Oct 2008, 10:42am |
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re: bhai sahab , maazarat kay sath yeh kehna chahonga kay aap ki biwi nay start main sirf bachon ki waja say sex kia aap kay sath, or abhi bhi jo woh 2 dafa akrti hia sex apnkay sath woh bhi isliye kay kahin aap us ko chor na dain or ek aramda life jo us ko mili hoi hia woh na khatam hojaye. is tarah ki aurtain intiha darjay ki khudgharz hoti hian or aap jaison ko ullo banatin hai sirf apnay matlab kay liye. hamaray aas paas ki life main aisi examples bhari hoi hain kay kesy aurton nay apnay shareef or masoon husbands ko ullo banaye rakha, sirf apnay maqsad kay liye shadi ki, bachay paida kiye or phir us ko ek nokar ka darja dia. biwi ki muhabbat hasil karna aap ka haq hai . aap nay kaha 6 saal ki life main ek dafa bhi khushi mehsos nahi hoi, is ka matlab yehi hai kay woh 6 saal say aap ko bewaqoof bana rahi hai. kher ab to bachay bhi hogaye hain, lekin mere khayal main 2nd marriage main koi harj nahi hia , yeh aap ka har lihaz say haq hai kay aap jaiz tareeqay say apnay huqooq hasil karain. Islam ki ro say aisi aurton par Allah or us kay farishtay laanat kartay hain to bhai aap kion us ki waja say apni zindagi barbaad kar rahay hain. us ka zara huqqa pani tight karain, phir dekhain kesy seedhi hoti hai.
goodman bhai nay bilkul sahi kaha , woh sirf maa banna chahti thi isiliye shadi ki or maa ban gayi, ab bas woh apna future secure kar rahi hai 2 dafa sex karkay. I simply hate these selfish women who only think of themselves and dont even care what their husbands wants.
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Nov 2008, 2:53am |
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charsi bhai ap aisa keryen k apni wife se is barey mein discuss keryen k wo aisa kion kerti hain? ye pata laganay ki koshish ekryen k is k peechay waja kia hai?
aur sath hi unhen is site per book read kerney ko kahyen...aur ap khud bhi read keryen....jis mein is tarhan k maslon k solution hain....
jub ap ki biwi ye site read keryen gi aur is book for men n women read ker leyn gi to unhen apni ghalti ka khud hie hsas ho jaye ga....aur wo change ho jayen gi
lekin agar us k bawajood bhi change nahi hotin to un se kahen k agar aisa hi chalta raha to main 2nd marriage ker lun ga...ye ap ka haq hai....dekhyen k un ka response kia hai.... |
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charsi |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Nov 2008, 5:03am |
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GOODMAN Dear Goodman sahib
My wife was 110% satisfied with me when we got married. Our marriage was an arranged marriage, I asked her many times if she is not happy with me she can take a divorce but she always says that she is happy with the current life and i am 100% of her ideal man but i found her non cooperative only in sex activities and a careless wife. |
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charsi |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Nov 2008, 5:17am |
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ZEB Bhai Me ne aik baar nahi 1000 baar apni wife ko kaha he ke tumhari is ghalat rawish ki waja se meri sex life tabah ho kar reh gai he tum apne aap ko change karne ki koshish karo me aksar us ko mazaq me "CHAKKA" bolta hoon aur us ko samjhata hoon ke tumhare ander Aurat wali khoobiyaan bilkul nahee hein. Lekin woh sex ki taraf bohat kam raghib hoti he. Aik baar to sex kartey huye woh ghussey me aa gai aur boli "Yeh aap ne kiya mazaaq banaya hua he ghanta ghanta bhar aap mujhe lage rehte ho. Seedha seedha ander bahir karein apna pani nikalein aur jaa kar so jayein" Yeh keh kar woh mujhe piyasa hi chor kar doosre room me jaa kar so gayee. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Nov 2008, 10:33am |
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ok charsi sahib dear charsi bahi there are 2 relations between husband and wife.
1.Physical relation.
2.Mentally Relation.
As you mention in your above post To Zeb that clearly shows that ur wife is not intersted with physicall relation with you.....and she does not like to more physical relation as u want........so my suggestion is that u must consult with Physictrist doctor about this matter............because this problem will be solve easliy if u visit any phyctrist clinic........ |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Nov 2008, 11:41pm |
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charsi sorry to say..apki wife nihayat hi Khudgharz hain.wo apne ilawah kissi ka sochti nahi hain.agar unhe ye psysical relation pasand nahi hai to unhe apko dusri shadi karne ki ijazat deni chahye...balke wo ijazat dain ya na dain,apka Haq agar wo nahi deti to ap unhe saf saf keh dain ke ab mai apni family ko bata kar dusri shadi karunga.
lekin is sab se pehle ap unhe yahan ki mojuda books parhne ko kahain. balke unko kissi lady doctor ke pas bhi le kar jayen.aur mashwara karain.
maby unhe kuch problem ho like ..Frigidit
https://www.thenoorclinic.com/Book3/Page200/women_health_185.htm |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Nov 2008, 5:47am |
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charsi hmmmm
ap sia keryen k un se ek bar ye keh k dekheyn k agar tum meri sexual wishes poori nahi kero gi to kon karey ga...agar tum nahi kero gi to majbooran mujhey 2nd shadi kerni perey gi na...
then see her behavior n then tell us |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Nov 2008, 4:18pm |
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Charsi yeah charsi kahan se agia .. funny kia lahore ke charsi ho...
Main apne wife se kehta hon ke agar tum mair khial naheen rakho gi to kia parosan khial rakhe gi.... Parosan ke dhamki bari kaam karti hai....
app ne kaha app 20 se 25 minutes sex karte hain... For your information main amm tor per 60 minutes se over bhe kar leta hon .. Bhai allah pak ne har aik ka baap is dunya main rakha haii... Kafi log Mujh se bhe ziada sex kar sakte hain... So dont think yourself Big...
Other hand main yeah bhe kahon ga hosakta hai ke allah pak app ka imtehan le raha ho au app ko aisi bivi de jo coopreate naheen karte.. Just a thought
Also agreed to Zeb , Sunehri .. YOu are talking to experst here.... Muaf karna agar meri koi baat buri lagi ho...
Aik aur baat kia tum chars pe ker sex to naheen karte.. kyon ke chars pe ker bhe timing barhte hai.. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Nov 2008, 3:44am |
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system very gud reply yar ;-p |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Nov 2008, 6:26am |
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Charsi bhai Asssalam alikum
yaar charsi bhai app k sath to waqai bauhat bura ho raha hai mere khayal se app kuch din us k sath sex nahi karo aur us ko ignore karte raho agar woh kahe bhi sex karne ka ka to taal kar mana kar do app ki wife ko aisa lagna chahiye k app ko us mein dilchaspi nahi rahi phir ho sakta hai wife app ki condition samajh sake kyo k koi bhi biwi aisa hargiz nahi chahegi k us ka husband us ko pyaar mohabbat na kare ya kisi aur mein dilchaspi le dosre members bhi apni raye dein zeb, suneri, system i also agree with them |
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System |
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| Posted on:6th Nov 2008, 6:23pm |
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 zeb yar
thanks |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Nov 2008, 2:27am |
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syatem u r welcome jani |
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2008, 5:25am |
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charsi bhai aap ka problem bara hi dard bhara hey waqai kisi ki biwi iss tarah sey treat karey to mard majboor ho jata hey chalt kamoun k liye
apney apni age 43 batai hey aap apni wife ki age bhi batien aur apney jo shoro k dino ka kha k uss ney aap k saath khoob sex kia woh meray khayal sey siey iss lieye k apney late age mein shadi ki hey ussey foran ulad chaiye hogi apni safety k liye .
aap apni wife ko yeah samjaha ney ki koshish karein k sex shadi shuda life k liye bhaut zarori hey aur agar woh apko issy tarah avoid karti rahie tou aap koi ghalt qadam uthaney per majboor hojeyin gey shayed woh samjh jaye
aur app ney yeah jo apni id rakhi woh bilkul ghalt hey kia aap ki adetein essiy hi to nahie hein agaer aap charas ya koi nasha wagera kar k sex karney jatey hein tou phir aap ki wife ko smell ati hogi aur woh apko tolerate nahie kar sakti hogi hum logon ney sirf aap ki baat suni hey iss liye yeah faisla karna mushkil hey k kaun sahi hey ya ghalt |
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2008, 5:29am |
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 Bahi Sahab
Me app ki mail per kar hairan ho gia hon ka app ki begum ne app ko kis tarah bewaqoof banya hoa ha. ap ki mail parne ka bad do batein samajh me ayi han.
1. aik ye ka app ki bivi ya to shadi se phele sex ki adi thi aur use shadi per yaqeen nai tha.
2. agr ye nai to shadi se phele us ka koi dost tha jis ne us ka sath galat harkat ki aur shadi per us ka itbar nai raha.
3. In dono soorton me us ne app se shadi sirf financial zaroorat ka lia ki. Bacha jaldi pada karne ka maqsad api jaga strong karni thi.
4.Ye aga app ne faisla karna ha ka aga kia karna ha kuin bachae peda hona ka bad bhi us ko app se mohabat nai hoi.
5.waise app ne late shadi kui ki late shadi karne wale to is mamle me tajarba kar hotein han |
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2008, 6:01am |
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Allah maaf karay... lekin yeh such hi kahaa hai siyaanouN nay k laatouN k bhoot baatouN say nahi maantya... kia samjhay... nahi samjhay.... kia aap ki biwi physically aap say taqat.wer hai... kia woh ecconomically aap par depend nahi karti... kia oskaa family back ground aap k family back ground say zeyadah qawi aur hasiyat walay haiN..... agar aisaa nahi hai to phir oski yeh kaisay jurrrat k woh bed par aap ko refuse karay yaa avoid karay yaa aap par command karay.... aap oski aik nah sonaiN aur apni marzi chalayaiN aur phir bhi nah maanay to .... i'm serious... kissi roz oski khoob pitayee lagayaiN.... as per quranic aayat... naa.farmaan biwi ki piTayee ka aap ko ikhteyaar haasil hai..... aap dekhiyega oski saari akaR nikal jayegi aur woh aap ki baandi ban jayegi...
but.... biwi ko peeTna bhi aik art hai... yeh kissi dushman ko peeTnay say mukhtalif hota hai... do u know k jungli haathi ko kaisay sidhayaa jataa hai.... ossay kuch din bhookaa rakhaa jata hai... phir ossay koi order dia jataa hai... amal karay to inaam maiN sugercane khanay ko detay haiN inkaar karay to pitayee ki jati hai......... naa.farmaan biwi ko bhi piyaar...pitaayee...piyaar k formulay say sidhaya jasakta hai....... baaz aurtaiN laa.shaa'oori taur par piTna chaahti haiN.... piTnay maiN aur piT kar nidhaal honay maiN bhi aik lutf aataa hai... aik paRhi likhee khatoon ko jab apni iss laa'shaoori 'talab' kaa idraak howaa to woh farmaaish kar kay apnay shauhar say har maah piTaa karti thee aur shauhar ossay chaRi say really peeTaa kartaa thaa... go start maiN woh aisaa kartay howay jhijkaa... magar biwi k kahnay par agree hogayaa.... magar aisaa laakhouN kaRoRouN maiN aik aadh hi hota hai.... normally aisaa elaaj mard khud tajweez kartay haiN
yeh nus.khah hai bara risky... soch samajh kar ehteyaat say aur apni zimmah daari par amal karaiN......... warnah doooooosri shadi hi karlaiN |
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Feb, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Feb 2009, 8:36am |
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 sex nahi janti
Dear All!
Salam,
Dosto, Bhaio,Doctor's & Sister,
may silakot may 1 factory may computer ooprator ho net k sath zindagi guzar rahi hay asal jaye paidaish Mardan Peshawar pakistan hay.
(7th December 2008 Sunday) meri zindagi ka haseen din jis din meri shaadi hoi.
shadi say 5 din pehlay achnak yeh website may nay parhi hay our Shukar Alhamdullah suhag raat ko may kamyyab ho gaya ho meri wife say mari 7th december pehli mulaqat b thi s say pehlay may kabi us say mila b nahi tha our Shukar hay KHUDA ka k wo buhut hi achi sabit hoi mere liye laiken 1 problem hay k wo sex k baray may bilkul nahi janti.
sunday ki night ko may nay us ko kuch kaha b nahi q k wo buhut zyada dar rahi thi jis ki waja say may nay usko kaha fresh ho k raho dosri raat ko mubashirat ki hay.
Dosto our khas kar may apni Behno ko araz karta ho k muje koi aisa tareeqa bata do jis k waja say jitna lutaf may hasil karta ho utn ameri wife b hasil karay wo meri har baat manti hay our may jis tarah kehta ho waisa hi karti hay bas problem yeh hay k wo sex k baray may kuch b nahi janti.
MERI DUA HAY ALLAH TAMAM JUDIO KO ITNA KHUSH RAKHAY JITNA US NAY HAMARI JUDI KO RAKHA HAY OUR RAKHAY GA. INSHAALLAH. AMEEEN!
your little brother.
alam shad khan/ssalam
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Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2009, 5:18am |
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 I am touched
Bhai,
Mujy aap key story sun kar bohat dukh hoya. aur kushy is baat key hai kay aap nay na to bachoon ki khatir dosry shadi ki aur nhi he koye dosra rasta apnaya... but mery bhai aap ki wife ko bhi kuch kehayal karna chayee...
agar main aap ki jaga hota to dosry shady kar leta... is main harj hi keya hai... aur jahan tak bachoon ki baat hai i think agar aap afford kar sako to saperate ghar lay loo.... is say koye zeyada masail bhi nhi hoon gay (according to my thinking)...
agar aap ka dosry shady ka plan nhi to apni wife ko is ka "DARAWA" zaroor dain. aakhir insan kay sabar ki koye intaha hoty hai.....
aur main aap ko aik baatoon.... jo attitude aap ki bewi ka hai... ya islami toor say bhi ghalat hai... ya to aap key sharafat hai kay aap nay koye aur rasta nhi chona warana aap key leya to bohat si option open hain... aap apni wife say ya baat disscuss karain aur un ko batain kay ya mere islami right hai. aur agar un ko aap ki baat ka yakeen na ayee to un say kahain key woo kud he kisi dost ya Aalima say poch lain.... |
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2009, 7:55pm |
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 Charseee....
ummmm yaar jeee, baat tumhari theek hai aur sad bhee pur ya koi itneee bhee serious nahee hai ka iss ka koi solution na hoo.... igur tumhain apni wife say sex kay ilwaaa koi aur shikyaat nahee hai tu , I dont think kay koi 2nd shadi etc ka masla hoo....one marrige is okay and u got childs as well... tumhari wife keee thori seee mental tuning wali hai ju tum nay theek tarah say nahee ki..pur ab bhee kur saktay and all will be good...aur baqi ju kuch nahee likha , pura likhoo, all truth battooooo yaar, u definitly hiding something..asal masla batooo ..because I have a thought kay definitly koi aur baat bhee ho gee , kiyoonkay aisay mahoool main itna long time nahee nikaalaa ja sakta..bura na manaa meri baat ka..aur souch kur batooo kay shayd iss kee waja koi aur bhee ho gee lazmi, because kay koi bhee normal shadi shuda women aisa nahee kur saktee with out any solid reason..pls...thanks..
aur kaheeen tumharay churs peenay say tu nafrat nahee hai usss ko..... enjoyyyyyyyy.. |
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