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simmonash |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Apr, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Apr 2007, 11:14pm |
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 Broken Love: How It Would Be Rejoined?
Salaam doc sahab ne story batane ko kaha tha. Meri aik cousion hay jo k aik larke ko pasand karti thi par us ki shadi kisi or k sath ho gye par yeh shadi ziayda der chal nahi saki coz us ka husband b kisi or ko like karta tha dono ne paresn ki waja se shadi ki thi. Par un dono ki divorce ho gye. ab wo jiss larke se shadi se pehle pyar karti thi meri cuzion se shadi karna chahta hay or meri cuzion b razi hay mager dono k ghar wale iss bat pay razi nahi hay isliye maine pucha tha... Kay kia larka usay kisi k hath nika nama bhej day wo us pe sign kar k wapas bhijwa de or larka qazi k samne sign akr de to kia iss tarike se nika ho jaye ga. islam main yeh thek hay. kia un dono ko ab apni khushi hasil karni chahye? doc sahab ne yeh sab likhne ko kaha tha to i am writing this. usa main qari wagera milna mushkil hay is liye ap se yeh sawal puch rahi hun take us ki help ho sakay umed hay ap sab log muje acha mushwara dain gay take us ki help ho sakay....
This is the story of a broken love. My question is how they would be rejoin togather. My cousin loved a girl whose marriage had been done on force by his parents to some one else. That marriage had ended in divorce since her husband didnot like her and he has had love affair with other girl. Both of them joined togather due to their parents. Now my cousin wants to marry that divorced girl with which he loved alot. Again the hurdle is the girl's parents who are not agreed. What should now my cousin would do. Whether he should send her Nikah Naama so that she will sign it and then My cousin will sign it infront of Qazzi and two witnesses in order to get her according to Shariah.
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doctorpk |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 593 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 3:29am |
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 re: simmonash
According to islamic law there should be sarparast and wakeel of bride, and witnesses of nikah. otherwise nikah will not occur. |
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kam_ali |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 6:31am |
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Good reply form doctorpk. |
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justSalman |
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 10:21am |
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 Doctor pk is right
I agree with doctor pk |
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simmonash |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Apr, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 1:34pm |
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Friends larki k parenst to razi hay hi nahi to kis larki ki friends larkiyan un k samne yeh ho sacta hay wo dono khud se shadi kare gay parents razi nahi to sarparast kese aa sacte hay beach main ??? |
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Gillette |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Apr, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 5:59pm |
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Tom & Jarry Kali Zubank is Tom and Noor123 is Jarry
Jistarha Cartoon mian Tom & Jerry ek dosre ke sakhat Dushman hote hai, isi tarha kali Zuban and Noor132 Bhe ek dosre ke sakhat dushman ahi. I request you plz ek dosre ka sath de. thanks |
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simmonash |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Apr, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 6:17pm |
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What is dis? Maine apni cuzion ki problem ka hal pucha tha ap sab se k wo kia kare problem main hay par ap sab yeh batane ki jaga panay apnay jagare main pare hay... afsoos ki bat hay k ap sab kay pas jawab nahi hay to is taran apas main to na jagara karo sab chalat ahy life main par ayse kisi ki problem main yeh sab karna its not fair agay apni apni bat hoti hay u guyz carry on |
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Gillette |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Apr, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 6:33pm |
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Re: Simmonash: Parents ke 24 Year ka pyar ap ek masnoyi boy friends ke 3 year se compair kar rahi ho.
W.Salam Dear Simmonash: Her insan ki apni soch hoti hai, mari soch ye hai ke parents apne children ke liye sub kuch karte hai, apke parents ne apki 24 Saal khidmat ki, apko educated kia, apko taleem o tarbeyat di, Ap apne parents ki Ezat ho, ap ghalat qadam uthavogi to apke parents ki Ezat Khak main mith jaye gi, Dosri baat ye ke apke parents apko 24 saal se pyar karte a rahe hai, kia ap in 24 saal ke pyar ka muqabla apne 2-3 Sall ke Manuyi Pyar se kar rahi ho, No You should obay of your parents coz aj ap jo kuch bhe ho apne parents ki waja se ho. |
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kam_ali |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2007, 8:20pm |
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Re :Gillette Good reply. I agree with you. |
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kools |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2007, 3:05am |
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re: simmonash waise dekhne mein yehi aaya hai keh jo shadian parents ki marzi se hoti hain (luv marriage ya arrange dono) woh zayada kamyaab hoti hain .... compare to da jo shadi parents ki marzi k khilaf ki jae ....
Aapki couzin and us larke ko chahie keh woh apne parents ko manane ki koshish karen ...
Islamic law k bare mein doctorpk is rite |
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samaa |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2007, 5:08pm |
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muger mera khayal hai k eik dafah woh apney parens ki baat maantey huye.... oon ki marzi se shadi ker chuki hai...... jis ka koi acha nateeja nahi nikla....... or ab mera khayal hai k oos ko apni marzi se shadi kerney ki ijazat honee chahiye...... |
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simmonash |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Apr, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2007, 6:13pm |
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 Yeh hi muje kehna tha
i am agree with you samaa coz last time she agre wid her paresnts jo unhon ne kaha kiya us k bad wo divorce b nahi chati thi guzara kar rahi thi par asa b nahi hua us k parents se divorce karwa li or ab jab wo yeh cha rahi hay or us ka lover b to us ko itna to haq dena chahye na k wo ab koi azmaish main na rahe apni achi love married life shuru kare kia asa mumkin hay? kia larki apni sahailiyon k samne sign kar k nika nama waps bhej day or baqi ka kaam larka kar le aysa mumkin hay kia muje bataiye ga ??? |
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Gillette |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Apr, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2007, 6:28pm |
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To: Simmonash Dear Simmonash: If you wish to marry with your beloved and your parents dont agree with you then first of all you must agree your parents, coz in islam parents have a very big importance and did you listen that ( walidain ke samne uff tak mat karain) ap jo kar rahi hain ghalat nahe hai, lakin is tarha karne se apke parents ka dil thote ga, woh apke dushman nahe muhsin hai, apka acha chahte hai, phir bhe ap apne dil ki manti hain to
2 male or 4 female witnesses form your side, and 2 male or 4 female wineses form his side, mare khyal main sign karne se zyada witnesses zaroori hai, witnesses ho to sign ki zaroorat bhe nahe hoti,
MIAN BIVI RAZI TO KIA KAREGA QAZI, apna apne ghar walo ka our sub ka khyal rakhe, khush rahe, wish you best of luch. |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:1st May 2007, 1:17am |
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court marriage pakistan mai aye din aise waqat hote rahte hai keh larke aur larki court ja kar shadi kar lete hai. jab ke larki ke waldain larka ke khelaf aghwa aur zina ka case kar dete hai. NGO's waldain ke khilaf larke aur larki ka sath dete hai. court bhi larke aur larki ke haq mai faisla dete hai. press aur awam ki aksariat bhi larke aur larki ka sath dete hai. jabkeh sab yeh jante hai ke larki ke waldain aur sarparast razi nahi hai. is ka matlab hua keh ma bap ki razamandi ke beghair bhi shadi ho sakti hai.
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ABBAS2010 |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Feb, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2011, 10:09am |
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hi all ek bar apnay parent ko mana lo phir jo vo khain gay ap krokul ko khuda nakasta kutch ho b jaey tu ap kay parents responsibilities lain gay baqi as u wish |
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Mufti |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2011, 10:16am |
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 Abbas2010
Aray bhai ab tak to uss khatoon k bachay bhi ho chukay hon ge....
4 saal honay walay hain iss topic ko... |
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Reza |
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2011, 2:35am |
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AttN: SImmonash
Dear simmonash
mera khayal he k ager ap full try ker chukey ho nd larki key parents nai mante to ap ko bjae nikah nama bhaje k sign karane ke ap ye try kren k larki kisi trh ghar se nikle nd then wo larka nd larki ikathe kisi qazi ke samne beith ke aijab o qabol ker lain. ye tariqa ziada behter hey. nd legal bhi.is me main prob larki ko ghar se nikelna ho sakta hey jis ke zrori he k larki ki ksi couzin saheli ya qarebi partner ki madad le jae. intezamat mukamal kar lene ke bad larki nd larka qazi sahb ya qari sahb ya nikah khawan ke samne paish ho jaen.i think it best way to be married.
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Aliiii |
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| Posted on:13th Dec 2012, 2:01pm |
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my weight i hav 1 question
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