|
DIL JALA |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 12 Age:
28
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 2:45am |
|
| |
 Bleeding Not Happened On Wedding Night: What Sould I Do?
Dear friends and doctors main ek ajeeb moshkil main hon mere samjh main naheen ara ke main kya karon aap logon se gozaresh hai ke mere rehnumaee karen. mare problum yeh hai ke mere shadi ko thore he din howe hain mere wife ke age 20yars hai sohag rat main mere bewe ne sex kerne se inkar kerdeya maine waja poche to waja bhe naheen bataee jis ke waja se main thora naraz howa pher woh tayyar hogaee maine cream use ke the take in kerne main koee moshkil na ho per jese he main penis ko vagina main in kerne ke koshesh kerta tha mere wife ko takleef hone lagte the pher kese tarha under kya per pora naheen jasaka or main discharge hogya taqreban ek ghante bad maine pher cream lagaker kya or pora under howa or main bohat ache tarha sex kya per mere wife ko koee bleeding naheen howe maine waja poche ke hymen kab zaya howa to ose yad bhe naheen tha kehne lagi momkin hai sports ke doran zaya hogya ho per mujhe yad naheen hai. mujhe apne wife per shak hone laga hai or mere samjh main naheen ara ke main kya karon badnami ke der se kese ko bata bhe naheen sakta or na esmasle ka hal kese se poch sakta hon soch soch ker ere demagh main dard hogya pher maine noor clinic join kya or apna masla aaplogon ke samne rakha hai aap logon se gozaresh hai ke mujhe sahe mashwara den ke main kya karon kya talaq dedon ya yeh sab mere sex ke bare main kam elmi ke waja se hai. mujhe maloom hai ke meyan bewe ke bat kese se discus naheen kerne chaheye per mere pas or koee rasta naheen hai aap log please mere help karen or mujhe es takleef de kefyat se bahar nekaleen. Please urdu main jawab den specially dr.kahan,dr. rizwan,kali zuban,or faise or tamam maried member se bhe gozaresh hai.
|
|
SMARTEE |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 121 Age:
38
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 6:38am |
|
| |
Re:DIL JALA Bhai apne ek bewaqofi ka kam kya jo apne negetive socha or apne wife per shak kya or on se poch bhe liya ke hymen kese zaya howa per apne ek aqalmandi ka kam bhi kya jo kese se esbat ka zikar naheen kya werna hamesha ke leye sharmendagi hote.
1. 90% womens ka hymen hota hai or 10% ka by birth hota he naheen hai.
2. momkin hai aapke wife ka by birth hymen hohe naheen sere se.
3. momkin hai woh such kehre hon khel kod main onhain pata he na chalaho ke hymen rapture hogya hai.
bhai mer eese fazol baten apne demgh se nekaleen allah ne aapko jo bewe de hai allah ka shoker adakaren eske ezzat karen or mohabbat karen etamad peda karen ek dosre per or ese fazol sochen apne zahan main na laeen.
ak zarore bat shetan sab se zada kab khosh hota hai jab woh meyan bewe ke dermeyan tafarqa dalta hai or en main laraee karata hai.
apne naee shadi shoda zindagi se enjoy karen or kabhi bhi esa kheyal dil main na laeen. |
|
shahs |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Apr, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
29
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 6:50am |
|
| |
good app nay bohat achi bat ke ha |
|
khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
33
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 10:21am |
|
| |
dekhen, ek baat samajh len ke husband wife ke darmiyan agar trust ka relation nahi hoga to zindagi guzarna bohot hi mushkil hojaega. abhi aap ki shadi ko kuch din hi howe hain, aap jaldbaazi se kaam mat len.
medically speaking,
bohot si girls mai hymen by birth nahi hota hai.
hymen ek membrane ka naam hai jis mai blood supply nahi hoti hai es liye jo bleeding hymen break hone ke waqt hoti hai woh surrounding tissues ke break hone se hoti hai.
hosakta hai ke hymen break hogaya ho but apki wife mai blood ki kami ki waja se bleeding naa howi ho.
may be unka hymen menses ya sports ki waja se rupture hogaya ho.
this is also possible ke hymen intercourse ke doraan break hi nahi howa ho.
sometimes hymen bohot tough hota hai aur break hone mai mushkil hoti hai.
bohot se couples regular intercourse karte hain but hymen break nahi hota even after childbirth.
aap pareshan mat hoon. ALLAH se achi umeed rakhen. shak naa karen. yeh gunah hai. khush rahen aur wife ka trust gain karen.
|
|
Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4259 Age:
38
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 12:03pm |
|
| |
re: Dil Jala ap ke sawal ka bahut hi asan jawab hai:
agar ap ne bivi ke ilawah kisi aur larki se sex nahi kia hai tu samajh le keh ap ki bivi ne bhi kisi se sex nahi kia hai.
agar ap ne bivi ke ilawah kisi aur larki se sex kia hai tu samajh le keh ap ki bivi ne bhi kisi aur se sex kia hai.
jab ap ke sex karne par ap ki bivi ko etraz nahi tu phir ap apni bivi ke sex karne par kio etraz kar rahe hai.
aur agar ap ne kisi se sex nahi kia tu phir ap ko pareshan hone ki zaroorat nahi. ap ki bivi bhi pak daman ahi.
|
|
cherry |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Apr, 2007 Topic: 9 Post: 124 Age:
30
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 12:12pm |
|
| |
ufffffffffff...........bewaqoof ne kitni bewaqoofi ka reply diya hai.........hamare samne hazaron examples hain ke biwi achi ho aur husband kharab ya vise versa........agar aap quran ke hawale se keh rahe hain tou aur baat hai but pahle aap us ayat ko properly samjhen phir reply karen.........its general not specific for sex............plz dil jale aap bewaqoof ki batoon mai naa aaye............dr.khan ka reply follow karen.its sensible one. |
|
Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4259 Age:
38
|
|
| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 12:23pm |
|
| |
re: cherry dunia mai koi bhi acha aur bura nahi hota. yeh aik relative term hai. yeh sirf insani soch hai jo kisi ko acha aur kisi ko bura banati hai.
yeh haqeeqat hai keh rishwat lene wala har aik ko rishwat khor samajhta hai. ksi aurat se illegal sex karne wala har aurat ko kharab samajhta hai. jabkeh har shareef mard har aurat ko shareef samajhta hai.
jo log jetni asani se larkio ko bewaqoof bana kar sex kar lete hai. ainda zindagi mai apni bivi aur beti aur bahan ki taraf se otna hi pareshan rahte hai aur samajhte hai ke yeh khawateen bhi bahut asani se bewaqoof ban kar kisi larke se phans jai gi.
jabkeh jo log aurto ki izzat karte hai ose apni bivi beti aur bahan par bahut ziadah etmad hota hai. woh apni khawateen ko doosre city aur country bhi bahut etmad ke sath akele bhej dete hai. on ko yaqeen hota hai keh koi bhi os ki khawateen ko bewaqoof bana kar sex nahi kar sakta.
|
|
DIL JALA |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 12 Age:
28
|
|
| Posted on:23rd May 2007, 1:55am |
|
| |
Re:thanks Sab se pehle to main noor clinic ka shokerya ada kerna chahonga jiske badolat mujhe atne ache mashware mile jis se main ek bare mosebat se bach gya.
Doctor khan_80 aapka bohat bohat shokerya jo etna acha reply diya main aapka hamesha mashkor rahonga or apne doaon main aapko yad rakhonga allah aapko hamesha khosh rakhe.
SMARTEE bhai aapka bhe bohat bohat shokerya aapke nasehat yad rakhonga aap ne mere aankhen khol den allah aapko khosh rakhe apke post reply perhta rehta hon jis se kafi koch hasil hota hai sex according to islam or medicaly bhe aapke malomat bohat ache hain.
Bewaqoof bhai aapke reply dene ka shokerya main wese he bohat dil jala hon ese leye mene apna nam dil jala rakh leya hai or aap mazeed dil jalane wale bateen kerke mera dil jala re hain aapke replyes main dil jalane wale baton ka unser bohat hota hai kya aap apne es adat ko badal naheen sakte.
cherry aapne mere post sahe se perhe naheen maine married friends or dr. saheban se mashwara manga tha SMARTEE married or experience person hain enka reply mujhe pasand aya behar hall aapke bhe reply ka shokerya. |
|
Qader |
Group: Members Joined: 10th May, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
25
|
|
| Posted on:26th May 2007, 7:39am |
|
| |
What might damage the hymen
Replyed by Sheraz last month
The hymen is not normally damaged by playing sports, using slim tampons, pelvic examinations or even straddle injuries.
Once a girl reaches puberty, the hymen tends to become quite elastic. It is not possible to determine whether a woman uses tampons or not by examining her hymen.
It is rare to damage the hymen through accidental injury, such as falling on the crossbar of a bicycle. Although such an accident may cause bleeding, this is usually due to damage to surrounding tissues such as the labia. It is unlikely that an accident would damage the hymen without injuring any other part of the vulva. Therefore, damage to the hymen alone, described as an accident, would be seen as a strong indicator of sexual assault.
Many sources, including romance novels or anything that describes virginity loss, mistakenly indicate that the hymen is somewhere up inside the vagina. This is a common misconception. The hymen is part of the external genitalia.
|
|
sunia |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
23
|
|
| Posted on:9th May 2009, 3:04pm |
|
| |
help me plzzzz help me plzzzzz mujhe ek larkay sy itni muhabat ho gaye hy k main us k liy ekuch b ker sakti hu per wo muj sy muhabat nahe kerta |
|
sunia |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
23
|
|
| Posted on:9th May 2009, 3:06pm |
|
| |
plz help me main mer jao gi us k begair main usy yad ker ker k pagal ho jao gi plzzzzzzzzz mujhe koi aisa rasta batain k mujhe wo bhool jaye ya fir usko meray sy muhabat ho jaye |
|
Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
28
|
|
| Posted on:10th May 2009, 1:49pm |
|
| |
Start New Topic per click kare. sunia: aap ne ghalat jagah per sawal post kia hai, aap apna sawal as a New Topic alag se post kare. Start New Topic per click kare.
|
|
TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
29
|
|
| Posted on:10th May 2009, 5:27pm |
|
| |
 @@@ i little little agree to all but not 100%
yaar jo sab kehrahe hain k sports or dosri waja se b hosakhta hai 100% lkn zaroori nahin hai issay b hoo aaj kal maahol bht kharaaab hai sab jaante hain sex karna girls k liyeee maamolii baat hai or har girl kisi na ksi ki biwi to banti hai hi haii.................yeh bataoo aapki love marriage hai ya arrangee ??? agr arrange hai to aapne information nikalwaii thi larki k baare meee shaadi see pehlee acchi tarhan??? yeh koi buri baat nahin hai investigation karnaa arrange marriage hoo loog new hoon jisko aap dor dor tak nahin jaante hoo to yeh poch taaj zarori hota hai samjhay bhaii.......................BAKI ALLAH BETTER JAANTA HAI ??
|
|
m.iftikhar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 70 Age:
23
|
|
| Posted on:11th May 2009, 2:11pm |
|
| |
sunia wp larka tumhare maa baap se barh k to nhe hai bhool jao usay....pyar wyar sab bakwas hai ...jese aur larkiyo ko dhoka mila tumhare sath bhi wahi hoga ....apne ammi abbu kiizzat ka lehaz karo apni limit mai raho is age mai aisa hota hai lekin ye pyar nhe hota sirf teenage attraction hoti hia jise hum pyar samjhte hai waqt k sath ye khatam ho jati hai ..... |
|
scorpiogal |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Feb, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
31
|
|
| Posted on:5th Feb 2010, 7:22am |
|
| |
oh c'mon qader n bewaqoof, talk sense!! I am an MBBS doctor and I wud lyk to tell u all that qader's post is nothing but misconception.... the hymen is absent congenitally (by birth) in many females.... had the hymen been meant to serve as a guard to the status of our virginity, ALLAH S.W.T. wud hav definitely mentioned it in The Holy Quran and Our Beloved Prophet S.A.W. wud hav mentioned it in his Ahadeeth-e-Mubaarika.... but as we all know, that is not the case... the hymen is a flap of membrane that partially closes the vagina and is a remnant of the process of development of the female genital tract.... it is initially situated high up inside the vagina and then descends to its adult position with time but it is NOT part of the external genitalia.... and the hymen is often elastic and only rarely bleeds at rupture... it is thin, does not cause much pain or bleeding because it is not very richly supplied by blood vessels.... the pain of intercourse is primarily due to the tightness of the vagina.... the vagina is not an open tube... it is a compressed slit that opens only with insertion of a penis or any other objects and it certainly can rupture on a per vaginal pelvic examination.... hence we do NOT perform a pelvic examination on an unmarried girl... the hymen is considered important only for ethnic and cultural reasons and has no Islamic basis for its signifaicance.... wake up people... stop embracing the jaahilaana beliefs of the hindus.... be an enlightened breed as Muslims are supposed to be.... bad'gumaani karnay se mana farmaya gaya hai Islam meyn.... and bewaqoof jis Aayat k hawaalay se yeh fatwa de rahay hain.... let him go and understand its meaning first.... nayk mard ko nayk biwi aur badd mard ko badd biwi ka zaroor kaha gaya hai but nayk biwi meyn zina wali bhi shaamil hai if she has done tauba.... understand... I am not defending zina but I hav seen many cases where girls are tricked in such a way that they do it but later repent and let me tell u, and go find out for urself.... most women do not enjoy their first few intercourses due to the intense pain of opening of the vagina and because they are not satisfied by their partners who are only after their own pleasure.... men are the ones who always ejaculate first leaving the female unsatisfied and do not provide appripraite foreplay and clitoral stimulation to help her climax and enjoy.... please stop joking to urself and other people by thinking that all women who hav had sex are pleasure-seeking whores.... May ALLAH Bless us all and Guide us to the right path, AMEEN. |
|
TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
29
|
|
| Posted on:5th Feb 2010, 10:42am |
|
| |
@@@Bewaqoof agar ap ne bivi ke ilawah kisi aur larki se sex nahi kia hai tu samajh le keh ap ki bivi ne bhi kisi se sex nahi kia hai. hahahahaha bhaii tumne aaj prove kardiyaaaa k tum bewakoof hi ho kia knownsense baat ki hai tumneee yeh baat kis kitaab me likhi hai k agr husband ne sex nahin kiya pehle kabi to bivi ne b pehle nahin kiyaaa hahahhahahah kia knownsense baat hai.............. or sawaal me saaf saaf likha hai k larki nee pehle sex karne se manaa kiyaaaa or pir krne diyaaa larki ne yeh b kaha sports meee hymen rupture hogaii hogiiii....................me yeh nahin kehta k inki bivi neee pehle kabi sex kiyaaa hogaaa 100% lkn yeh baat IMPOSSIBLE nahin hai k waqaii sex kiyaa hoo asa possible hai aaj k maahol k hisaab seee jooo baatein meneee apni oper reply me poochi thein wo bataii inahin gaiii aussay kch andazaa hotaaaaa.................islyee aagr shaadi ghairoon me ki gaii hai arrange hai too pir investigate karna chaayeee larki k baare meee is me koi buraiii nahin hai okay |
|
TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
29
|
|
| Posted on:5th Feb 2010, 10:50am |
|
| |
@@@@@scorpiogal AGREE WITH U TOTALY lkn jo mene baat kahi hai usmee mene yeh nahin kahaaaa k sirf SEX ki waja se hi hymen rupture huaaa hai yeh kahaaa hai k sex ki wajaa se huaaa hogaaa POSSIBLE hai lkn IMPOSSIBLE nahin...............mene current atmosphere maahol basis yeh baat kahi hai jo k sab ko hi pata hai..........i repeat again k jo shaadi se pehle girls sex karti hain wo b ksi na ksi ki bivi bunti hain or is site per bundle of TOPICS hain girls k jooo kehtI k humne SHAADI SE PEHLE SEX KARLIYAA HAI KUCH ASA BATAAEIN K HYMEN WAPAS AHJAAYEE YA HUSBAND KO PATA NA CHALAY k humne sex kiya huaa hai kia hum pregnent to nahin etc etc etc etc
I HOPE K AB APKO SAB KO MERA JAWAAB SAMJH AHGAYAAA HOGAA WHT IAM TRYING TO TELL U ITS JUST A TRUTH |
|
Rkhan83 |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Sep, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 6 Age:
30
|
|
| Posted on:1st Oct 2010, 10:58pm |
|
| |
ASalam0Aalakum...!! guys i have one question..arryte its understandable dat hymen is not related to virginity of girls...but can any1 tell me wat will be the sign of virginity for girls if she doesn't have sex before her marriage..? |
|
noor123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 83 Post: 804 Age:
28
|
|
| Posted on:7th Oct 2010, 3:43pm |
|
| |
rkhan83 TRUST is answer of your question, marriage relation is truly based on trust.
|
|
Naznainnazli |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 196 Age:
25
|
|
| Posted on:7th Oct 2010, 5:18pm |
|
| |
Noor123 sister How are u? Kidar thi ap kafi arse se nazar nhi ieen? Apki shadi hui k nhi? Apka topic parha tha jis me ap ne likha tha k apk ghar wale apki shadi klye agree nhi hein. |
|