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RAGHU1 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jul, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2009, 5:11am |
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Adultery: How Can I Get Rid Of This Deadly Sin?
salaam, BROTHERS,MAIN SWITZERLAND MAIN REHTA HOON APP SB TO JAANTE HAIN YAHAN KA CULTURE KITNA OPEN HAI , IS LIYE MERA SEX KERNE KO BOHET DIL KERTA HAI , AUR MAIN ZANA KARNE PER MAJBOOR HO JAATA HOON IS KI BADI WAJA YE BHI HAI K MAIN AKELE REHTA HOON ,MAIN JAANTA HOON K YE BOHET BADA GHUNA HAI ,MAIN ISE CHORNE KI BOHET DAFA KHOSHISH KI HAI LAKIN PHIR MUJHE US WQT KOI BAAT SOJTI HI NAHI.....PLS HELP ME............MAIN KAISE IS GHUNA SE BACH SKTA HOON............... Brothers I live in Switzerland and as you here the culture
is very open. I try to keep my self away from adultery but un-fortunately I fail
to do so. I know how deadly sin the adultery is, but what should I do? I cant
prevent my self. Please help me and let me know how can I get rid of this sin?
Moderator Note:Dont use capital letters in whole post.
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hasna |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1865 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2009, 3:47pm |
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rgui wo country chor do
bye |
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eagle fly |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2010 Topic: 74 Post: 2117 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 12:10am |
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Raghu bhai Read this
Adultery |
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rafaz |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 20 Post: 937 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 3:03am |
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SHADI KER LO Is ka good solution yee ha k shadi ker lo
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RAGHU1 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jul, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 3:12am |
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thanx thanx |
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Decent_Guy |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Jun, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 3:41am |
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Dear Brother.. Dear brother...
Agar app Allah say sachay dil say tauba karain to wo zaror tauba qabool karnay wala hai...
Jo shaks bhi ye bura kam karta hai...Allah tala ko ye dekh kar ghairat ati hai...
aur wo shaks Allah ki nazron mein gir jata hai...
mein khud akela rehta hon aur abroad bhi ja chuka hon..lakin agar srif app ek step Allah ki taraf bharyengay kay ainda is ghalat kam mein nahin pareingay...to Allah tala app ka hath pakar kar app ki madad karaingay..
and I advise you go for marriage...agar abhi nahin karsaktay to apnay app ko achay activities mein engage rakhain aur achay dost banain..
Allah behtar karnay wala hai... |
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Decent_Guy |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Jun, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 4:39am |
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I would like to add..
Mein ek aur important point add karna chahoon...
Kia app aisa chahogay kay jis larki say app ki shadi hoo wo kisi aur kay sath ghalat kam mein involve hochuki ho....harghiz nahin..yahan app ki ghairat kabhi gawara nahin karegi kay jis say app ki shadi hoo wo characterless hoo..
Is liye Allah nay kaha hai kay jo app apnay liye pasand karain dosron kay liye bhi wo hi pasand karain...
Matlab ye kay...jis tarah app chahingay kay app ki wife pak daman hoo..to app ki wife ki bhi yehi khuwaish hogi kay unka husband ek naik insaan ho aur pak daman hoo..
I hope you understand..
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 1:39pm |
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raghu sabse bari bat tu ye ke kaheen bhi kisi bhi mulk ka culture apko zabardasti kuch karne ko nahi kehta chahay wo kaam ghalat ho ya sahi jab tak ke aap khud na karna chahain, aik tereh se apke nafs ka imtehan hi tab hay jab apke samney aik cheez ho jo apko pata hay apko gunehgar karey gi aur ap uski teref ankh utha ke bhi na dekho tu hi ye sabit hoga ke aap ne apne nafs pe kaboo paa liya aur shaitan mardood ko uske napak iradey main kamyaab nahi honay diya,koi bhi gunah karney se pehle ye socha karain ke aap shaitan mardood ko uske gandey iradon main madad kar rahay hain wo Allah paak ko challenge karta hay aur ap uski raah pe chul kar uske aalakaar ban rahay hain, aap ye sochain ke is sab se farq kisko parey ga ALlah paak apko hamesha dekh raha hay usey koi farq nahi parta usey apki ibadet ki zaroret nahi hay apko hay aap uski naimaton ke mohtaj hain ye sochain ke kabhi apki is harkat pe Allah paak apse naraz hogaya tu kahan se khayen gey aap, kya aik sans bhi le payenge? nahi na
Maslay ka hal kisi mulk ya culture ko kasoorwar thehranay main nahi hay, apni zaat ka tajzia karen aur apne nafs pe kaboo pana sikhain Allah paak ki batayi raah pe chalain aur apne liye dua manga karen InshAllah Allah paak apko bhatakney se bachaye ga
JAb bhi apka dil aisi cheezon ki teref raghib ho tu un naimaton ko yaad karlia karen jo apke paas hain aur apki aisi harkat se apse chin sakteen hain aur apko dunyavi aur akhrat main bhi zaleel kar sakti hain, ye socha karen ke ALlah paak ne naik admi ke liye naik aurat aur napak ke liye napak, tu kya aap berdasht karenge ke apko aisi biwi miley?
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Lover boy |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 77 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2009, 4:28am |
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Very good post by Koyal I wish everyone can think like her. Excellent.
Raghu, you are too young but are involved in such illicit activities. You must repent from Allah without wasting a second. Remember Allah is ONE and HE is everywhere, the same Allah is here in Pakistan, in Switzerland and everywhere. If zina is prohibited here, it is prohibited everywhere. I don't know why most of us feel everything 'jaez' while they are abroad? You must refrain yourserlf from adultery otherwise wait for the day of Judgement when you will be hell-borne. This is not a minor mistake; it is one of the biggest sins (Gunah-e-Kabeera). Secondly, you must avoid publicizing your sins among public, everyone should have some shame at least. |
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kuki |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2009, 8:15am |
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my experience ALLAH may bless you all,
i have two freinds in Paris. both are my class fellows too.both belong to middle class and both are muslims. one after reaching Paris became playboy and sex addict and the second one so far( in three and half year) has memorized 12 Pras of Holy Quran.
the playboy was a fun loving guy we used to call him " Shodial" meaning a show off the second boy was a serious boy who love sobriety.
in fact Paris became their real exposure. one boy rvealed his true picture and the second one also did the same.
what you need is to change yourself fom innerside. then you will see that a even a nude girl will not make you upset. i will put it in this way i remember that i bought a solid dish to ctch hotbird channels. at7 pm when i turned on the tv some of germen and italian tv were showing porn and i felt that i have become prey of these channels. the next day my boy age 2 year got sick seriously and rctched the previous day s activity of watching porn tv. my inner voice confirmed that i was warned fro ALLH to quite these nasty acts at once or bear the consequence like that. the next day i placed the dish in such place that hotbird signals were blocked and i prclaimed real toba till that day whenever i see some dish towards hotbird i beagin remembering the sickness of my child. this thing make me rigid about my ambition to say no to porn.
hope if you r determined to sau no to your nude surrounding then ALLAH will guide you and HIS guidance will come to you from Holy uran. read and recite Holy Quran daily with translatio as to understan waht ALLAH want you to do . soon you will be strong enough to bear all swiss beauties.
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kuki |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2009, 8:22am |
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edit the word please moderator add Q to uran i third las line tro make the word Quran. i wonder your forum lacks edit option
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6476 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2009, 10:28am |
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salam ap kayin b ho aj kul borai kaaah ni hy hur jugaaa shaytaaan k chaylly mojood hen , lurkiyiooo ki koi kum ni hy , pak , guf.ksa, eurap.,usa kayin b pur apny ap ko buchana hota hy
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