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rafaz |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 1:06am |
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 Sexual Intercourse: Should Women Participate Actively?
What can women do for her husband in sex to give more sex pleasure to husband. Kya aurat ko sex k dooran open sex kerna chahey ya neehen becz most husband chatey heen k un ki wife dooran sex shermana choor dey or open sex karey. Yani k khud bhe sex say lutf ley or husband ko bhee dey aisa koi urat ker sakti ha neehen. Yani k sex may pehal khud karey open ho ker becz most husband like it.
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 10:05am |
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re App ko patta hay kay bohat say shadi shuda loag prostitues kay pass kayoun jatay hain??? issi baat per kay un ki biwi gher main shermati rahti hay aur apnay husband ka sath nahi daiti. Islam main kahin yah nahi kaha gaya kay aurat baith ker shermati rahay. Yah aik aisa rishta hay jis main ager kam az kam husband wife main sex kay liay MUTUAL understanding ho tu bohat say doosray jaghray apni ahmiyat hi kho daitay hain kayounkay sex aadmi ki sab say beri khwahish hoti hay.
Mairay hayal main tu aurat ko merd ka iss mamlay main poora sath daina chahyay aur merd kay liay bhi zaroori hay kay wo aurat ko iss baat per incourage keray aur uss ko baad main iss baat per criticize na keray jo kay, amizingly, loag kertay hain.
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dr.yasir |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 2:16pm |
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hello
rafaz app ka question bhout acha ha aur aik tarha say dosroun logoun kay liya ies kay sahi jawabat bhout faiedamand sabit houngay jasa kay pinky jee na kaha theek ha husband wife dunu ko aik dosray ka sath dena chhya mager wife ki sharm aik tarha jayez ha bhi ha aur nahi bhi kion kay who aik mulim lady hote ha os ko sharm tu mahsoskarte ha bas ies liya who bahpore sath nahi da patee laken amouman dekha ya gaya ha kayamouman jo kay zeyada tar wifes sharm chur date hain who 2 ya 3 bachay honay kay bad but taamam sawaloun ka yahi jawab ha kay sath dunu ko dena chhya ai kdosray ka os waqt main ies sa husband aur wife dunu hi khush rahtay hain hamesha aur dunu main piyar mohaabat kayem rahta ha kion kay shadi shuda husband wife ka asal mohabbat ka razz hi sex ha so thnaks |
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rabiaihsan |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 5:47pm |
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sex yes i think a woman should participate in sex actively 2 keep her husband near her.got it |
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rabiaihsan |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 5:48pm |
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sex i want2 know hymen can be repaired without surgery |
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Mnadeem |
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| Posted on:12th Dec 2007, 12:25am |
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 re: rabiaihsan
hymen can not be repaired even with surgery! whatever known about surgery is an implant of artifical hymen. so the answer is no |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:12th Dec 2007, 3:38am |
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yaaaaaaaa i agreed to all
wife ko bi zarur sath dena chahiye aur husband ko usey encourage kerna chahiye aur usey kehna chahiye k tum bi participate kiya kero aur jo acha lagey bataya kero etc etc....... |
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Bunty78 |
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| Posted on:13th Dec 2007, 11:32pm |
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zeb Zeb i agree with ur comments but ya toa theek hain ka shadi ka initial days main biwi ko participate nahi kerna cahee jisia ka forum per kia giya hain. abh jaha tak ya baat hain ka biwi ko tawan kerna cahee woai toa kerna cahee kyon ka ya aik do bar kaee baat bai nahi hain lakin shadi ka kitne months tak participate nahi kerna cahee? |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:14th Dec 2007, 4:08am |
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i think it depends on both partner...dono mein kitni frankness hui hai, kitni jhijak khatam hui hai, sherm, communication during sex b/w them, sex talks b/v them, etc etc....it varies from person to person |
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Aag |
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| Posted on:14th Dec 2007, 2:12pm |
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Agreed Completely and with my heart agreed with zeb. |
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BeautyStar |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 7:06am |
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 Sexual Intercourse : Should Woman Participate Actively ???
Pinky7861 : App ko patta hay kay bohat say shadi shuda loag prostitues kay pass
kayoun jatay hain??? issi baat per kay un ki biwi gher main shermati
rahti hay aur apnay husband ka sath nahi daiti ..... I don't think so ...... Iss ki aur bhi buhat wajoohaat hotey hain ..... !
Sharm-O-Hayaa tou eak tarah ka gift hota hai Husband k liyah .... Husband ko wife buhat achi lagtey hain jab woh Sharmatey hain husband ki kisi baat per ...... So I think Sharam - O - Hayaa is a good thing infact it is built-in in Pakistani people and other Asians .
Waisey Larki chahey jitney bhi modern society ki hoo woh Shadi wagairah k mamlaat ma sharmatey zaroor hai ..... aur yah sharam-o-jheejak kuch couple ma zindagi bhar rehtey hai or kuch maiyn 1 week ma hi khatam ho jatey hain tou maiyn ZEB Bahi k reply se agree karta hoon Its all depends upon your understanding and needs.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 7:25am |
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Add More Things ....... Agar woman 1st night ko hi actively Participate karey gee tou it may create doubt in his husband's mind .... As all the husbands are not broad minded ... It needs time ...... First take your time to understand what your partner wants and then starts accordingly ..... So In my opinion Understanding plays an important role here .
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 10:02am |
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beautystar App baat ko goar say perhay bagair hi answer likh daitay ho. Main nay kaha hay kay bohat say shadi shuda loag prostitues kay pass kayoun jatay hain?? Aur bohat say ka matlab hay kay baqi kisi aur wajja say jatay hain lakin kafi sirf iss liay jatay hain kay jo satisfaction un ko gher main nahi milti wo uss ko prostitutes say hasal kertay hain.
App abhi shadi shuda nahi hain jo kay sherm-o haya ki baat ker rahay hain. Theek hay kay modesty aurat ka zewar hay aur yah bhi theek hay kay sab hi pahlay hi din nahi participate kerna shuru ker daitay. Lakin ager aap isssi dunya main rahtay hain tu kam az kam itna tu patta rakho kay aisa hota hay. App ager innocent ho tu her koi aisa nahi hota. Jo loag mohabat ki shadi kertay hain ya jaisay foregin countries ka mahoal hota hay tu kahan ki sherm aur kaisi haya????
Lakin yah koi galat baat nahi hay. Aurat ager shoher kay samnay bhi sherm say merti rahay tu phir iss open relationship ka kia faida. Majority merdoun ki pasand kerti hay kay aurat bhi khul ker apnay jazbaat ka izhar keray aur jismani toar per un kay sath shareek ho. App sab ko apni soach kay circle main na shamal ker lia kero plz.
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nadeem AOL |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 265 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 10:23am |
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 agree to pinky
I agree to Pinky. Beautystar should broad his mind and if he knows some Dulha who is in doubt that why his wife is participating in sex he must have some psycological problem and should consult a doctor.
Regards.
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Bunty78 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 26 Post: 255 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 11:05pm |
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pinky and beautystar both r right pinky kaee baat apne jjaga theek hain taham beauty star bai galat nahi kaah raha. Sharam baqi rahne cahee lakin asee haad tak nahi ka husband sisakta rahee |
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nikama |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 11:16pm |
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openly... both should take part openly & fully..you will not be included in sinners by doing this..chill with your wife the way u want & let her do the same..sharm hiyaa ko din kay waqt rakh dain..no sharm at nights... |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2007, 8:53am |
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 Pinky7861 & Nadeem AOL
As'salam - O - Aluikum ,
Pinky7861 : Well , Maiyn jo baat samjhana chah raha tha woh yah thee kah Alone this factor (Shyness of Wife) does not lead some one towards Prostitute.
According to My Philosphy -----> Prostitute k pass Insaan butat
sarey factors ki wajah se jaatey hain Lekin Loog khas tour per shadi
shudah loog ussey waqt jaatey hain jab unhain koi Raasta dekhatah hai
(i.e. When someone induce him) Aur raasta woh loog dekhatey hain jo iss
rastey per ja chukey hotey hain or guilty feel kartey hain tou phir woh
apna guilty wala burden dosrey logon per transfer kartey hain or yah
Chain phir chaltey hi rehtey hai ........
I also consider that factor what you have mentioned but alone this
factor does not lead someone to Prostitute , Kyun kah agar koi biwi se
khush nahi tou woh Dosrey aurat ki taraf dekhey ga or may be dosrey
shadi k barey ma soochey ga woh prostitute k pass nahi jaeyga .....
Prostitute k pass wahey jaey ga jab koi iss taraf ka rasta dekhaey ga
......... Thats what I want to say you that there are many other
factors too .
Anyway , Its only philosphy , May be I am at fault (Sorry in advance) .
Nadeem AOL :
Dear Brother , I was not talking about individually .... believe me or
not but its true that out of 1.6 millions people in Pakistan 1 million
are narrow-minded , So we cannot ignore them while replying here so
thats why I wrote that point .... I think Bunty
got that point ..... We should consider all aspects of life before
writing anything here ... our approach should be multi-dimension . (I
like MNadeem's posts because he thinks about all aspects)
Technically Speaking , I am broad-minded yaar you can realise it by my Previous Posts .
Take care,
ALLAH Hafiz
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bebo |
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 3:56pm |
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succesful marriege aik kamyab shadi shuda life dono partners kay co operate karnay say hi mumkin hay... as of facts.... shade shuda life ka 80% sexual life per depend karta hay ...agar dono partners main understanding hay aur dono aik dosray ko satisfy kar rahay hain to un ki life kamyab hay aur agar biwi hi na cooperate karay how can she make a good life ..well it also depend on husband kay mard ko hi apni biwi ko encourage karna cahiya kay woh us kay sath participate karay aur kaisay karay coz hamaray muashray main sex education na hponay kay barabar hay so husband hi usay yeh education ietamad mau la kar day sakta hya takay biwi sex ko samjhay aur husband ki needs ko sajhay and finally apni married life ko succesful banay |
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System |
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 4:20pm |
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bebo 80% ...???
kuch explain karen..?
baqi app ki baten sahee hain ke husband hi responsible hota hai wife ko sex education teach kerne, satisfy karne ke lea...ager wife sex life main cooperate kare to bhut acha hai... |
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TheRock |
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| Posted on:14th Oct 2009, 6:01am |
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@@@@This CLEAR ALL YOUR CONCEPTS This has been very eloquently explained by Imam Muhammad al-Baqir when he said,"The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again." (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p. 14-15) After all, modesty and chastity in public is the hallmark of a Muslim lady.
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