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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:27th Aug 2009, 1:03pm |
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 Aadmi, Farishta Aur Janwar
Allah nay farishtouN ko aqal ataa kia magar onhaiN shah.wat (sexual desire) say mahroom rakhaa... janwarouN ko shah.wat ataa kia magar aqal say mahroom rakhaa... jabkay insaanouN ko shah.wat bhi ataa ki aur aqal bhi .... ab yeh hum insaanouN par monhasir hai k hum aqlay saleem ko shah.wat par Ghalib rakh kar khud ko farishtouN say behtar darjay par faaiz kartay haiN yaa shah.wat ko aqlay saleem say maa.waraa .... apnay darouN par sawaar karkay khud ko janwaroun say bhi neechay ki satah par lay jatay haiN...
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:27th Aug 2009, 1:28pm |
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myrizvi.... apka topic bohat acha he ... can i ask few questions....agar ap ya koi seriously reply karey ga tu mujko khushi hogi
1) kya males and females ke shah.wate mai koi faraq hota he?? mai intensity ke lehaz se pouch rai hon......hamarey culture mai girls ka iss barey mai izhar zada bura consider hota he.....tu kya waqai larkiyon mai shah.wat kum hoti ha??
2)kya aj ke dor ke nojwaan nasal zada behrah ravi ke taraf maeel ha...ya ab humko pata zada chala he aur ye sub pehley bhe itna he tha?
3)islam aik fitri deen honey ke natey nikkah ka hukam deya puberty ke sath...agar kisse bhe waja se koi mard/aurat jald shadi nai kar patey tu kya unka apni shah.wat ko control rakhna itna he mushkil ha k woh galat cheezon ke taraf maeel hon zaror?...aur aurat or mard me zada kiss ka chance ha aur kyoun??ya equal chance he galat kam mai parney ka...
agar mery ye question iss topic se related nai tu...phir answer na karein..
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2009, 8:05am |
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anees Thais nah lag jaa.ay aab.geenouN ko 1) males, females ki shahwat maiN taqreeban wohi faraq hai jo as a fuel gasoline aur darakht say kaTi tazah lakRi maiN hota hai...... hydrocarbon nah sirf qareeb ki aag say balkay ignition temperature say bhi AAG pakaR leti hai. jabkay frsh wood ko AAG pakarnay maiN khasay jatan karnay paRtay haiN. jo log dehi back ground rakhtay haiN woh bah khoobi jaantay haiN k zara see geeli laKRi say choolha kaisay jalta hai.
mash.hoor hai k males "nazar" k zariyeh zariyeh hi HOT hota hai jabkay aurat kay kaanouN maiN ras ghol kar oska "self defence control" khatam kia jata hai.... yehi wajah hai k islam pahlay mard ko nazar neechi karnay ka hukm deta hai phir females ko hukm deta hai k woh 'apna husn" mardouN say mastoor rakhay..... issi taarh aurtouN ko hukm hai k jab woh naa.mahram say baat karay to sakht lahjay maiN baat karay takay male ko yeh moqah /jurrat nah mil sakay k woh apni lachay daar baatoun ko females k kaanouN maiN ondel kar ossay shah.wat k raastay par lay jaa.ay
mard to zaraa zaraa see baat pay "bhaRak" oTh.ta hai ... jabkay aik "normal-female" (yahaaN bay raah rawi ka shikaar females ki baat nahi horahi) ko BHARAKANAY k liyeh foreplay ki zaroorat hoti hai, khaah woh male ki biwi hi kiyoun nah ho.
qissah mukhtasar yeh k normal environment /same environment maiN males bahoot jald shahwat k etbaar say taish maiN aajaata hai... jabkay females ko taish maiN aanay balkay laanay k liyeh jiddo johad karni paRti hai.... amooman laRkiyaaN males ko dekh kar out of cntrl nahi hoteeN jaisaa k females ko dekh kar male hojaytay hain (by nature bhi)...... issi liyeh mard ko apnay nafs ko control karnaa zeyadah mushkil hai bah nisbat females k...... females zeyadah arsay tak shauher k beghair "sharafat" say rah sakti haiN... males nahi... biwi say door males jald bigaR jatay hain...
2) aisaa koi data available nahi jiss say pata chal sakay k kal k naujawaan bhi etni hi bigRay howay thay jetnay aaj k haiN... lekin gomaan ghaalib yehi hai k pahlay aisaa nah thaa coz:
a) pahlay females bahar kam nikalti theN b) pahlay makhloot mahaul kam thaa c) pahlay show-biz ki shaitaaniyat ka overall volume bahoot kam thaa... hatta k movies dekhnay, gaanay sonnay k liyeh bhi cenima /kothay par janaa paRta thaa... ab yeh SHAITAANI SAHOOLAT ghar ghar dastyaab hai... jiskay baaes males to males, females bhi zeyadah tezi say shahwat k haathoun tabaah horahi hai... insaani satah par bhi aur islamically bhi.... ab to mobile ring tone k zariyeh Allah k ghar /masajid maiN bhi tawaifoun k gaanay aam sonay jatay haiN during jamaat... Allah o Akbar
3) bigaRnay ka zeyadah chances males ka hota hai ... agar dounouN ko same environment /wasaail dastyaab houN... tahaam agar females ko (basaa auqaat) zeyadah azaadi milay to woh bhi tezi say bigaR sakti hai...
go islamically ghalat kaam karnay par male aur female dounouN "kharaab" hotay haiN lekin zameeni haqeeqat yeh hai k males laakh "bigaR" kar bhi dobarah "recover" karleta hai... females k pass aisa option kam hota hai... aik baar woh sirf bad.naam hi hojaa.ay to oski zindagi "barbaad" hojati hai... males ki nahi... males jeans ki paint jaisaa hai,,, jaisaa bhi ho Theek aur acceptable hota hai... females white malmal ka suit hai... ispar daagh dhabbay to aik taraf zaraa si shikaan bhi saamnay walay ko "bad feel" hoti hai....
eastern / muslim culture maiN zeyadah males hi bigaRtay hain... mothers bhi laRkoun ki zeyadah pitayee lagati haiN... larkiyaan kaanch ki chooriyaan hti haiN... jetni achi lagti haiN, otni hi naazuk bhi hoti haiN.... aik hadees maiN females ko aabgeenouN say rtashbeeh di gayee hai yani handle wid care
Allah hum sab ko aqalay saleem ataa karay aur jumlah shaitaani waswasoun /attraction say door rakhay aameen |
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2009, 8:18am |
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myrizvi well explained....... |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2009, 8:26am |
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Myrizvi Thanks for the detailed answer. :-).. Waisey aj kal halat daikh kar lagta he k noujwan nasal ko inn sochon k alawa koi kam nai.. Aik research k mutabiq 19-29yr k male 6times sex k barey mai sochtey han in 1hr.. 29-39yr k 4-5times..but mujko itna yaqeen nai aya.agar aisa ho tu dunya k baqi kaam kaise karte han.. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6605 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2009, 12:20pm |
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nah teen maiN nah terah maiN hum min haisul qaum ab nah teen maiN rahay haiN nah terah maiN... yaani nah to mosalmaan ban kar islamic (sexual) life style par kaarband rahna chaahtay haiN aur nah hi totally kufria (sexual) life style ko apnaanay par raazi haiN... kuffar k life style maiN sex koi issue hi nahi... woh jab chahaiN, jahaaN chahaiN aur jiss say chahaiN... mahaz baahmi razaa mandi say sab kuch kar saktay haiN... lehaza woh sexually aasoodah hi rahtay haiN oskay baawajood wahaan zinaa bil.jabr common hai)...... iskay baraks hum muslim society k log islamically aayeli zindagi nah guzaarnay k sabab hamesha jinsee bhook ka shikaar rahtay haiN... hamaraa electronic / print mrdia issi bhook ko hawa detaa hai...... nateejah zaahir hai... hum ghair fitree amaal ki taraf bhaagtay haiN...
jab tak hum yeh d0-amli nahi chorengay ... dunyaa maiN kabhi kaamyaab nahi hosaktay... yaa to kulli islami zindagi ko apnaa'o jissmaiN jinsee bhook ki sairaabi ka khaatir khaah intezaam hai... yaa phir (Allah nah karay) kufria sexual life style ko apnaa lo... takay kam az kam dunyaa to saN.wer jaa.ay.... yeh kia k...
nah khodaa hi milaa, nah wisaalay sanam + nah idher k rahay nah odhar k rahay :))))
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6605 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 12:35am |
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jungle maiN more naachaa kis nay dekhaa g haaN naachtaa more hai, morni nahi... lehaza agar mard, mardouN k saath khail kood aur warzishi /cultural (like saudis /balochese /african) naach naachay to koi harj nahi... lekin aurtoun ka naach ???
Allah taa'laa nay tamaam animals maiN males ko (as compare to female) more beautiful banayaa hai.... iskay bar.aks insaanoun maiN females ko nah sirf more beautiful banaya hai balkay naazuk bhi banayaa hai...... taaham iss naazuk aur haseen personality ki hifaazat k liyeh baap, bhai, khawand aur beTay ki mazboot chahaar-deewari ka intezaam bhi kia hai... now it's up to female k woh iss fitree aur mazboot tareen chahaar-deewari k ander mahfooz aur bay fikar hokar zindagi guzaarnaa chaati hai yaa yaa in chaahaar deewari say bahar nikal kar shikaari males k beechoun beech khud ko 'shikaar" banaa kar ghair mahfooz, bay.chain aur pur.khatar zindagi gawaraa karti hai....jissay shaitaan aur skay hawaari pur.kashish banaa kar media k zariyeh portrait kartay haiN??????????? |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 1:25am |
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myrizvi bhai Myrizvi bhai excellent explaination. Allah apko jazae-e-khair atta farmaen. |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 1:18pm |
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sunny & eaglr fly bros. pasandeedgi ka shukarya n jazak Allah
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 1:23pm |
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What abt waterr :-( she also liked |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 1:59pm |
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ok My rizivi sahib nay kafi detailed say jwab lekha but i will only reply water krr for your ur first question.
1) kya males and females ke shah.wate mai koi faraq hota he?? mai intensity ke lehaz se pouch rai hon......hamarey culture mai girls ka iss barey mai izhar zada bura consider hota he.....tu kya waqai larkiyon mai shah.wat kum hoti ha??
Agrcha my rizvi kee batay point of view kay lehaz say correct ho gee per aurat may marad say ZAYADA SHWANI KHWAISHAT ha..........agrcha unhoo nay bilkul theek likha kay marad jald stimulate ho jata ha............lekan aurat may sexual desire Marad say bohat zayada ha................Agracha aurat koo stimulate kernay may time lagta ha is kee waja yeah kay aurat kay sexual organs diffrent places per hide ha...........But aurat may sexual desire MARAD say kain ghunna zayada ha............
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Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 2:26pm |
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re: sigmund freud and his psychosexual model re: "Waisey aj kal halat daikh kar lagta he k noujwan nasal ko inn sochon k alawa koi kam nai.. "
water: sigmund freud ke mutabiq inssan ki saari zindagi sex thought per hi guzarti hai. os ne aik psychosexual model pesh kia hai jis ke darj zail stages hai.
- Oral Stage of Psychosexual Development (ages 0-18 months)
- Anal Stage of Psychosexual Development (18 months - 3 1/2 years)
- Phallic Stage of Psychosexual Development (3 1/2 years - 6 years)
- Latency Stage of Psychosexual Development (6 years - puberty)
- Genital Stage of Psychosexual Development (puberty - adulthood)
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:29th Aug 2009, 3:15pm |
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bewaqoof kya ap freud ke mukhtalif human psychology ke sexual aspects se agree kartey han?
jitna maine freud ko parha he wo mujko sex maniac ke alawa kuch nai laga....uss ke khayal me insaan ke tamam zindgai k tamam pehlo sexual aspects se he linked han...west chahey freud ko sexual aspect of human psychology ka dada abba samjhe....mujhe personally bohat problems han freud ke sex aspect of human se........waisey uska kaam psychotherapy and some other things mai acha he.......anyway what can u comment on goodman reply? |
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:30th Aug 2009, 8:48am |
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comment on goodman reply comment on goodman reply.............anyone please...... |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:30th Aug 2009, 1:41pm |
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waterr ap ka bhi shukarya :)))
goodman:
females main males say zeyadah shahwani khahishaat hoti haiN???? can u prove it? aurat to apnay makhsoos biological /physiological saakht k etbaar say bahoot say ayyam maiN sexual desires nahi rakhti yaa iski shiddat kam hoti hai... issi tarah aik shab maiN aik yaa do baar k sexual experiences k baad 'satisfied' hojati hai... jabkay sehatmand mard kam az kam CAPSTAN (=Can A Person Strike Thrice A Night:) tak to pahonch hi jataa hai... hamaray piyaeay Nabi sallallaho alihay wasallam aik hi shab maiN apni tamam jauzah say bhi mobaashrat kar lia kartay thay...mard ki zeyadah sexual khahish /shiddat ko pooraa karnay hi k gharz say Allah nay inhaiN zeyadah say zeyadah chaar qanooni biwi k elawah launDiyouN ki bhi ijazat di hai... kiyouNkay woh mard aur aurat dounouN ka khaaliq hai aur woh jaanta hai k kis k pass sexual desire zeyadah hai... Allah kabhi zaalim nahi hosakta k aurat ko zeyadah sexual desire day aur ossay har maah haftah-ashrah tak sex say door bhi rakhay... talaq /bewah honay ki soorat maiN kaii maheenouN tak sex karnay say mahroom rakhay... aur "kam" sexual khahish walay mard ko zeyadah mawaqay faraham karay...goodman ap ki baat main koi sense nazar nahi aati illa yeh k ap har aurat ko tawaaif yaa tawaaif jaisaa hi samajhtay houN....
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:30th Aug 2009, 1:44pm |
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sigmund freud k sar par to sex hai sawaar...... yeh to insaani zindagi ko haiwaani satah say bhi neechay lay jata hai jahaaN issay insaan k har amal maiN sex k onsur nazar aataa hai.
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:30th Aug 2009, 2:02pm |
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re sigmund freud ko to main ne nahi parha, lekin aap logon k discussion se thora andaaza ho gaia hai k kis qism ka jaanwar hai woh.... lolzzzz :)
aur bewaqoof ne sigmund freud ka hawala es lie dia q k sigmund freud ne kahi se bhi islaami maloomat hasil nahi ki, aur bewaqoof unhi baaton ko ziada pasand aur promote karte hain jin ka islam se doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooor doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooor tak koi taaluq nahi ho....... |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:30th Aug 2009, 7:50pm |
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freud, bewaqoof aur sunny! kuch jo samjhaa "bewaqoof" ko to "sunny" samjhaa
"oss" ko jannat say nikalaa howaa insaan samjhaa :)
(PS: yeh reply "ghair mutellaqah" NAHI hai)
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Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:31st Aug 2009, 1:07am |
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re: sigmund freud re: "sigmund freud ko to main ne nahi parha,"
jab aap ne sigmund freud ko parha hi nahi tu os per comments dene ka haq nahi rakhte, aur aap ke comments ki koi hasiat nahi.
Sigmund Freud beesween sadi ka sab se bara psychologist tha, basically woh MD Neurologist tha. ab masla yeh hai keh aap ko psychologist, MD, Neurologist ka concept ho tu phir aap se baat ki jaaye. aap tu saaf saaf kehte hai keh : "sigmund freud ko to main ne nahi parha," aur beghair parhe os per comments bhi kerte hai. |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:31st Aug 2009, 1:50am |
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ok water jee ap ka bee comment kernay ka shukriya agar ap kay pass bee kooi question ya information ha to ap be share ker day........... |
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