Khawand ki pasand kay mutabiq halka sa make up karein amooman mardo'n ko zyada make up pasand nahin hota iss silsiley main aap khawand sey pooh sakti hain kay usko kya acha lagta hai. Humarey haan ajeeb sitam zareefi hai kay shuru mein to biwiya'n inn cheezo'n ka khayal karti hain magar chund baras guzar janey kay ba'ad wo libaas aur jismaani safaee ka khayal nahin rakhtii'n, ghar mein aksar auqaat unn kay kaprey gandey hotey hain, haatho'n sey pyaz aur adrak ki buu aa rahi hoti hai, jism paseena ki buu sey labraez hota hai yah sab cheezein mard kay jinsi jazbaat ko sard karney kay liye kafi hoti hain. Aurat iss rawayye ki wajah sey apni kashish kho deti hai magar yehi aurtein jab bazaar jaeingi to naha dho kar ban sanwar kar jaeingi haala'n kay aurat ki shakal o surat, libaas aur jism ko humesha khawand kay liye pur kashish hona chahiyie. Iss kay liye aurat ko sha'oori koshish karni chahiyie hadees e nabvi ka mafhoom hai kay biwi ki zahiri shakal o surat aisi ho kay khawand dekhey to khush ho jaey libaas kay elawa biwi kay chehrey pe muskuraahat ho.

    9.   Mubashrat sey pehley ek doosrey kay kaprey utaarna bhi ek lutf angaez marhala hai le'haza aurat ka izarbund aur bra kay hook iss qism kay hun jisey khawand aasani sey khol sakey warna ba'surat e deegar izarband aur bra ko utartey utartey uss kay jazbaat sard parjaeingey.

    10. Mubashrat faraj (vagina) mein ho gi aurat ka khayal hota hai kay mard ko ilm hota hai kay zakar kab daakhil karna hai jab kay mard ko ilm nahin hota le'haza jab aurat kay jinsi jazbaat urooj per hun to woh mia'n ko daakhil karney ka ishara karey iss kay sath hi dakhool mein mia'n ko madad karey taa kay khawand ko dakhool mein diqqat na ho.